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    Posted: Jan 27 2013 at 8:43pm
So I have a younger sister and a cousin who can pretty much be considered my sister also. She has been living with us since we were little. They are both 20. I'll call her Kay for the story.

About a month ago my cousin went to visit her friend that stay an hour away at a college I graduated from...okay cool. This was a Friday night and she was planning on staying until Sat/Sun. I'm always checking on her and not having heard from her since earlier that Friday...it being Monday I felt something was wrong.

I'm at work on Tuesday...and she leaves a voicemail crying. Shocked Once Kay said the first word...I knew something wasn't right. Ouch So I told her to come by my place after work.  She tells me the whole story.

Kay was at a small party at her friend's place. She was feeling tired/buzzed so she went to her girl's bedroom to laydown. Some Brotha she was talking to prior that I warned her was a player...I guessed he snuck in and started kissing on her. Kay told me she was groggy and then this dude tore her panties off and stuck it once...she became alert and pushed him off. He stopped and apologized. She immediately drove back and told her girls what happened...apparently they knew he had a baby momma and some other drama...but they didn't want to ruin him trying to talk to her? Dead

I was asking her in detail what went down. My first instinct was to call the police...but the incident happened near 4 days ago so that was seeming futile. I was them going to tell my dad, but she had me swore not to tell a soul nor to hunt this dude down and react. Confused I know if I told my dad he'd prolly shoot the guy and never trust Kay again...as he is a paranoid (rightfully) over the girls more than me. 

So I took her to the clinic and doctor to make sure she was good. I saw the nurse I saw nearly 6 months ago with my incident and she said some slick comments. Sleepy

Should I have told my dad or the police? I haven't told anyone since this went down in December. If I had told she'd prolly not talk to me for a good minute and I wouldn't be able to keep a close eye on her. I knew she had my back when I told her to keep a secret about me getting burnt and my pregnancies with various hoodrats. But I feel as though as I betrayed my parents by not telling them. 

I gotta get this off my chest, but IDK. Ermm Please ask any question if this story seems scattered and unclear.
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yoke dat nicca up.
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You still should've called the police IMO. Then again you weren't there to actually see it happen so it would be better if she was the one who called the police although I highly doubt she will.
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*sigh* i would have had no reservations to call the cops or put dem paws on him. 




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My policy in a situation like this is you should never speak for another adult unless they give you permission. If and when she is ready to tell your dad or anyone else, you can be a support for her. Until then, keep her confidence (just like she kept yours).

I hope she's seeking out support if she feels she needs it and I'm glad that it wasn't any worse.
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I really hope you aren't lying. If she is a minor, tell parents/call the police. If she is grown, encourage her to go to rape counseling. Other than that, leave her alone.

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Originally posted by JasonWllms55 JasonWllms55 wrote:

*sigh* it hasn't even been a week yet. Call the cops. fukk what she says. he will do it again.
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Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

I really hope you aren't lying. If she is a minor, call the police. If she is grown, encourage her to go to rape counseling. Other than that, leave her alone.

I know I've said some outrageous stuff in the past, but I can't make most of the stories up. It has been eating me up and I don't know how to handle it.

She was crying telling me the story and I had to tell her that it wasn't her fault...smh. I was crying also and I don't like crying in front of women like that. Disapprove
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Encourage her to get counseling, and keep ya trap shut to others.

Quote I knew she had my back when I told her to keep a secret about me getting burnt and my pregnancies with various hoodrats. But I feel as though as I betrayed my parents by not telling them.
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Then I don't know. I can only speak from experience. It can go two ways. She could be reaching out to you out to you, so you can do what she is strong enough to do...call the police, talk to her parents.

Or she trusts you wants confidentially. Honestly, if it was my close family member, if I couldn't kill him with out being caught, I'd just call the police.

He's going to do it again. The person that raped me in 2011 just raped somebody else raped somebody else recently. But he is going to die soon. -shrugs.
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