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I guess that she has saved up enough for a down payment on a sizable house by nowGeek
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lol y'all know ny'ers pay a million dollars for closet space lol
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my pride wouldn't let me stay somewhere I'm not wanted...I would have gone to a shelter. They will most definitely help you get your own place.

You have to have dignity and love yourself
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Originally posted by Super22Star Super22Star wrote:

no ma'am don't ever let a man play with you like a yo yo. You guys have been together to long for him to not have popped the question. He is not the one. Please don't waste anymore time on him. God can't send you a good man if you're already living with a man. Good luck and God Bless


This is exactly how I'm starting to feel now. Today he said to me, "Once I move out your screwed because you're not coming with me because I don't want to live with anybody." I said, "Fine that's why I have been saving up to go on my own." Also he revealed to me that his brother's girl (who also lives here) hasn't paid in a while. I then said well, that's messed up considering she makes more than me. My bf then told his mom that I was upset that she hasn't paid in a while and he texted me that his mom said that if it's such a problem I could take my $100 and go live somewhere else. I really need to gtfoh.
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Originally posted by NJHairLuv NJHairLuv wrote:

I guess that she has saved up enough for a down payment on a sizable house by nowGeek


I took the money I had saved for a car and added to the money I had saved for a place. I now have a little over 10K saved. I also now see an employment specialist and she is helping me to find full time work. 
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Originally posted by creole booty creole booty wrote:

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lol y'all know ny'ers pay a million dollars for closet space lol


Girl you ain't never lied. Stuff like this is why I have been looking for jobs in other areas.
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Originally posted by Super22Star Super22Star wrote:

my pride wouldn't let me stay somewhere I'm not wanted...I would have gone to a shelter. They will most definitely help you get your own place.

You have to have dignity and love yourself


I hear you. One time me and him got into an argument and he said, "no one that lives here wants you here." I'm just here working hard and saving so I can have enough for an apartment or condo or room to rent. April 12th, 2018 will make it six years that I have been living here and enough is enough. I'm glad that living here has allowed me to somewhat get my Censored together. I got both my associate's and bachelors degree living here and I have saved a lot of money but these people want me out...especially the dad. One time I was sitting in the kitchen talking to my bf's bro's girl and then the dad walks in the room, looks at me and says, "I should have kicked you out a long time ago but...." and then he just shrugged and didn't finish the sentence. Ever since then that comment has replayed over and over in my head. I use it as fuel to motivate me.

Living on my own still scares me but now I feel a little more prepared. Hopefully I find a new higher paying job in the next few months.
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Congrats on getting your degrees! Clap

I think you should leave ASAP before they kick you out but you won't... I honestly don't see how you stay there and act like you are welcomed. Have some respect for yourself and leave and stop making excuses. 
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Originally posted by Faithfully2002 Faithfully2002 wrote:

Congrats on getting your degrees! Clap

I think you should leave ASAP before they kick you out but you won't... I honestly don't see how you stay there and act like you are welcomed. Have some respect for yourself and leave and stop making excuses. 


Thank you! It's a great feeling to have them. I am trying to leave before they attempt to give me the boot. I am trying to make sure I have enough money for a few months rent and furniture for my place. I am using the fact that I am still here to stack and much money as I can. I will be making my exit sometime next year. Especially since my bf keeps saying that he is going to leave and that if he leaves then I have to leave too. But at this point if he left and left me in his mom's house I wouldn't even give a damn. I would just stay a lil while longer and keep stacking chips.
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well you have saved a lot of money. that's more than you need to leave. especially once you get a job you shouldn't have anything to worry about. maybe you could try finding a roommate to share expenses. It seems like its really uncomfortable living there. you should move asap and not continue a relationship with your bf
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