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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote Lady ICE Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 29 2013 at 8:51am
Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

Going out with friends and having fun doesn't have to mean Pucci in your face.
No mam, no thank you.
Big proble,
agreed.especially since she already said she had a problem with it.
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I would definitely feel weird about having another half naked woman on my man. And him spending money for it

I would rather date a guy that doesn't enjoy that type of stuff

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote BeanieBabiesMommy Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 29 2013 at 12:29pm
I got cheated on with a stripper. I had no idea my man was going to the strip club and then i found out it was a frequent thing. like every weekend plus 2 days a week.
and you know what kills me about my man.
God forbid I wanted to be a stripper (which I have wished I could be one, I think strippers can do amazing things with their bodies and that pole) or God Forbid I went to the club just to go dancing, he would have a heart attack.
 
so if my man wants to go to the strip club. sure.
just know that while youre out with your friends at the strip club "looking"
ive put on my freekum dress to hit the club and men will be "looking" at me.
 
 
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Twisted_Angel Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 30 2013 at 2:48pm
oh shyt I missed that part..she told him no so that means he's not allowed.
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Thank you all for taking time to respond on my thread and offer your opinions, I appreciate it greatly.

Happy New Year to all of you!!!!!!!
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Originally posted by scott0727 scott0727 wrote:

@Lady ICE and @Beauty 620 I understand both of you ladies' opinions...and I'd like to think of myself as a mixture of the two views...I'd like for my man to have eyes only for me AND for us to be very open with each other and not sneak around at all.

Now let's throw another factor into the equation: If you and your man were in a long distance relationship and he went out to the strip club...would you still feel the same way?? 

Oh Heck Naw....if it's a long distance relationship then it just would not work out period, because #1 ya'll don't really see one another daily, and he could be doing whatever he wanted too whenever with whomever. NOT Stern Smile 

I know i'm late as ever  responding LOL Well Happy New Year!!! 
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most men dont just "look" when they go to the strip club...if you payin, you gona pay for some action, not just to "look"
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I feel threatened by the other girls there knowing that their bodies r hott mines is ok because I'm a bit insecure with myself thats why I have a issue with him going in the beginning he wanted me to go with him because he said it was fun and at this particular place the food was good but now he barley asks I had to gain his trust first we been to one I wasn't bothered then but the thought of my man liking another girl and giving her attention and money hurts me that's why I'm 50/50 about it
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Maybe if I had a big butt or something I wouldn't be insecure there I have something but not compared to some girls and then my man gettin stiff to another woman and not me shieet how would he feel if I got all hot and wet over another man but him like I said I'm 50/50 with it my insecurities is holdin me back sh*t I wna have a 3 some but my confidence is holdin me back
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