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Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

But I mean...if a man tried to you on the first date would you respect him?

No I would not. I would think he was just out to get some pumpum and stop communicating with him.
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There's this guy who I've known for a long time, hadn't see him in about 10 years. One week after we reconnected he was asking me about what colour panties I'm wearing. 

Then after I stopped responding to him and initiating contact, that fool had the nerve to text me suggesting that we go on a date. LOLLOLLOL *sigh*
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yall can be so uptight 
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Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

yall can be so uptight 

What you mean Coco.
In what way
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i just probably wouldnt react the some way as some of yall... 

like if i thought a guy was trying to have sex with me early on.. id frown, check him, and shut that down real fast.. but continue on.. not necessarily never speak to him again because of some flirting or 1 comment. many many many girls fck first day.. its not some crazy/odd thing that never occurs.

i wouldnt kiss on the first day either.. never have.. but am i supposed to never speak to him again cus he insinuated/seemed that he wanted that..? 
i know kissing and sex are different (for some.....) but same difference.. theyre both hell no's to me.  
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now if he continued to make comments/try... thats completely different.. we'd be done. 

but after 1 comment if im like, nah... i dont appreciate type comments like that.. and he respects it and/or apologizes (which is what usually happens) why get up and storm out and never speak to him again..? 

idk its just not the biggest deal to me.. 
guys are hornballs and a lot of girls are sluts.. when would it be okay for a guy to make comments/insinuate to yall..? 5th date? 10th? thats still way too early for many girls.. and way too late for some girls (many would call him gay cus he hasnt tried anything with them yet..)




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Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

now if he continued to make comments/try... thats completely different.. we'd be done. 

but after 1 comment if im like, nah... i dont appreciate type comments like that.. and he respects it and/or apologizes (which is what usually happens) why get up and storm out and never speak to him again..? 

idk its just not the biggest deal to me.. 
guys are hornballs and a lot of girls are sluts.. when would it be okay for a guy to make comments/insinuate to yall..? 5th date? 10th? thats still way too early for many girls.. and way too late for some girls (many would call him gay cus he hasnt tried anything with them yet..)






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Originally posted by AshBash89 AshBash89 wrote:

Sounds like he's saying he'll fck an easy girl but he won't wife her. I don't see anything wrong with his statement.


Correct.

This is the way men think in general.

I don't know why people keep pretendng that men and women are ' the same'. Men and women are not the same .. I have yet to see a man give birth.

Men CAN sleep around with every alleycat that comes his way and be socially accepted

But when a woman lays up with any random dude .. she would be nothing more than a whore. :(

Every generation trys to re-engineer this basic construct and never works. Some things NEVER change.

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you dont need a pucci to be a slut.

smh @ men passing judgement on anyone.


if a man wants to sleep on first date, i assume he's nasty as fvck and a ho...prolly beating every fleabag pumpum he comes in contact with....


 

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it is my opinion that the Brotha wasnt really that into you if he doesnt respect you after sex on the first date.
what does "i cant respect her" mean anyway?
I wont date?
I wont wife?
Im not gonna call her back tomorrow?
I'll only call her for sex?


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