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Originally posted by Lonisha87 Lonisha87 wrote:

i forgot you can't say anything here without someone reading them as angry...
gifs are business as usual and you really do read as more than slightly miffed/offended. it comes off as transference you've been carrying over since the original poofed thread that referenced your husband imo. 

should you be miffed/offended, ok then. if not, ok. your posts read as the former though. 
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That didn't go very well....but anywayLOL


Nationality vs. Race

The only time a person in America is called by their race is when their race happens to be any form of descendent from the African continent (Black)  because duh!!    They have to identify us Black Americans so that they can find us in a crowd and give us nice prizes and stuff.  Otherwise how would they know who to give all the goodies too.  They know we like free stuff and they want to make sure we get everything thats coming to us so we get to be Black + American!! Tongue

Sometimes mean people get mad so they have to say African instead of Black because they don't want anybody to think they are racist but everybody knows racism was over a long time ago.  Duh again!! Cool


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Originally posted by Lonisha87 Lonisha87 wrote:

I'm not in denial about anything. I don't like the immature ass faces being posted in reponse to my comments. I'm allowed to be annoyed by them. I get where she was coming from about the "white Hispanic" hung. As I said before and will say again. It just doesn't sound right to me. Get over the fact that something just doesn't sound right to me and stop trying to cause drama and an e-argument for nothing...i forgot you can't say anything here without someone reading them as angry....



Well for someone who isnt angry your post are coming across as hostile,with the name calling and such. But whatevers... You said why it doesnt sound right to you and ppl said why it is what it is...no ones arguing or looking for drama...That would of been done pages ago if that were the case.
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question!

If you grew up in a neighbourhood where it is 99% white , how can you say black men don't feel you and won't like your hair etc when you have no access to one? That sounds more like what a clear person would say who has never seen a black person before (a stereotype).LOL


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Originally posted by CherryBlossom CherryBlossom wrote:

Originally posted by samiro samiro wrote:

Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by samiro samiro wrote:

I dumped my bf (he's mexican) right after the verdict was read. He was talmbout some "i would kill a 6'2 person in a hoodie standing in the rain too"

I was like fck your no job havin, never graduated highschool ass. Eat a dck.

*goes back to ghosting*



That statement was the deal breaker tho?



Nahh, he said some stuff about black men not being sh*t before that statement and he was all "i know how they are. I have black friends"

So i was just like how is that supposed to make me feel about the way you feel about the men in my family?

Or maybe i was just looking for a reason to dump himm... Dude hasn't had a job in the 3 years we've been dating.


 


I screamed! LOLLOLLOLCryCryCryCryLOLLOLLOLLOL
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Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

That could be an interesting thread. Would you name your child through marriage a Jr and your child with your mistress a II? Dead
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Originally posted by Lilaca Lilaca wrote:

question!

If you grew up in a neighborhood where it is 99% white , how can you say black men don't feel you and won't like your hair etc when you have no access to one? That sounds more like what a clear person would say who has never seen a black person before (a stereotype).LOL





Some people will always look for a reason to justify the things that they do. If you feel the need to vilify the men/women of your race as a reason as to why you date out then theres a bigger issue that needs to be addressed. You can grow up in a 99% white neighborhood and still date someone in your ethnic group if you want to.. itll just be a bit harder but if u want to you will.

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Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Originally posted by Lilaca Lilaca wrote:

question!

If you grew up in a neighborhood where it is 99% white , how can you say black men don't feel you and won't like your hair etc when you have no access to one? That sounds more like what a clear person would say who has never seen a black person before (a stereotype).LOL





Some people will always look for a reason to justify the things that they do. If you feel the need to vilify the men/women of your race as a reason as to why you date out then theres a bigger issue that needs to be addressed. You can grow up in a 99% white neighborhood and still date someone in your ethnic group if you want to.. itll just be a bit harder but if u want to you will.

ita...i believe some people on here should take a leaf out of your book. I've not seen you once put down black men for your s.o!LOL
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Originally posted by oh_so_moody oh_so_moody wrote:

Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

does the verdict make you want to stop bleaching, OP?  




How mean!

I would love a genuine response from the OP, tbh.  
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hold on , where is the proof that op used to bleach?

i need recieptsLOL
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