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Originally posted by uppitynegroid uppitynegroid wrote:

Originally posted by blaquefoxx blaquefoxx wrote:

But lets be real, people go out of their way to broaden their horizons when it comes to school or a career, but yet can't seem to do the same when it comes to finding a lifelong mate and someone they can relate tooErmm
 
You can't go on a hunt to find a black man who likes nappy hair.  There are barely any black people on dating sites.  Its not like something you have total control over.  All you can do is live your life, socialize, go out and hope to meet someone.  You can't snap your fingers and make a modern version of Malcom X appear out of the air.  I wish I could though...
What dating sites do you visit??
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Well it can be true that there are not alot of black men that don't meet the qualifications of some black women.
 
Alot of black women are not willing to date "down" and what a man that is already established.
 
BHM ain't about dat fixer upper man....LOL
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Originally posted by Rumbera Rumbera wrote:


Well it can be true that there are not alot of black men that don't meet the qualifications of some black women.
 
Alot of black women are not willing to date "down" and what a man that is already established.
 
BHM ain't about dat fixer upper man....LOL
it's not even about dating a fixer upper even if the guy does meet the criteria, way too many make the mistake of falling for the things than the person then put the blame on everyone else when they really should have been paying attention to the person..

That's how they get played ..
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If you are in the UK & on top of that stay in a tiny village next to some insignificant cities finding a "good black man" who is still single is very difficult.

It's either broaden your options or be single & bitter every time you see a black man that has broadened his because there was very few of black women like you in his life lol.
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If there were no black men here, I'd have to relocateStern Smile
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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Originally posted by Rumbera Rumbera wrote:


Well it can be true that there are not alot of black men that don't meet the qualifications of some black women.
 
Alot of black women are not willing to date "down" and what a man that is already established.
 
BHM ain't about dat fixer upper man....LOL
it's not even about dating a fixer upper even if the guy does meet the criteria, way too many make the mistake of falling for the things than the person then put the blame on everyone else when they really should have been paying attention to the person..

That's how they get played ..
 
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Eh.
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So OP pulled a hit and run eh?
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i worded enenemy like nemo did


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Originally posted by CherryBlossom CherryBlossom wrote:

sistagal, you need to come down to London, ijs...Embarrassed LOL


Boy you ain't never lied!!! I keep getting deeper & deeper into the countryside smh. Now I'm in some tiny village in Staffordshire. The nearest nandos is 20miles away. So you know there ain't no black people living here willingly! Lol
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