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I need to lay down. Suga you are fool lmao
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should have quoted!!
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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

should have quoted!!
Ouch I didn't want to put her on the spot.  I was hoping either I misunderstood or she'd edit.
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lol yea i skimmed it didnt make sense to me neither
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The thought of having to educate a man I'm in love with about race relations and the deep rooted cancer of white privilege in this country is just overwhelming to me.  

What I do hope is that these white men who inevitably have brown babies realize that their sons could certainly be Trayvon.  I hope that they not only "get it" but fight it with every breath.  


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they'd be halfway on the journey to enlightenment if the women they were sleeping with insistent, insightful AND persistant on the subject of blackness with their mates, but nooooooooo causes too much confusion

probably one of the reasons i respect robin well, paula patton-thicke
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Originally posted by K_Camille K_Camille wrote:

Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

should have quoted!!
Ouch I didn't want to put her on the spot.  I was hoping either I misunderstood or she'd edit.
 
You didn't do anything, but I'm in a weekend course for the MBE. I need to take notes, and I could tell that this was going to turn into a long discussion. I have to focus on the course I paid for, but the general idea is that he feels that teaching people how to be safe and how to prepare for danger does not impute guilt. I feel that even suggesting it is victim-blaming. We discussed it, and agreed to disagree. I don't think Trayvon should have done anything differently. He says that Trayvon wasn't wrong, but he (my SO) would have tried to diffuse the situation. Again, I think it's victim-blaming, but we agreed to disagree. We as adults, can discuss things, have different ideas, and move on. We both agree on the central issue that Zimmerman was wrong, and should be in jail, if that makes sense.


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^^^ I can agree with both of youse guys points kfoxx & ak. And I can admit that I'm presumptuous in two points of my previous post: that the black partner is willing to be that instructor and that they have any-damn-thing to teach. I'm projecting my race awareness, identity, pride or what have you on to other negroes.

For me, to talk around or negate race is tantamount to talking around a significant part of my existence. As a result, I never fully comprehend those (black, white or other) that do.
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Originally posted by CamiK CamiK wrote:

Some of these ppl in this thread I ain neva seen before...yall come out the woods for threads like this...huh??
what did i say yesterday?

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Some of these ppl in this thread I ain neva seen before...yall come out the woods for threads like this...huh??
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