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Originally posted by Lonisha87 Lonisha87 wrote:

I don't consider it a swirl relationship because my hubby isn't white


I find that interesting ...I like your post and not trying to start nothing. I wonder how many other interracial minority couples feel this way ?
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Not everyone is ignorant to the world we are living in and the way it is slanted as far as reward and punishment goes. Not sure why ppl assume that race isnt a topic that IR couples discuss or cant go deep into discussion about. Those are necessary if anything serious is planned.  I say that knowing that some IR couples are naive and live in bubble of "we're different" or " color-blind" once you leave the comfort of your home the real world happens.


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Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Not everyone is ignorant to the world we are living in and the way it is slanted as far as reward and punishment goes. Not sure why ppl assume that race isnt a topic that IR couples discuss or cant go deep into discussion about. Those are necessary if anything serious is planned.  I say that knowing that some IR couples are naive and live in bubble of "we're different" or " color-blind" once you leave the comfort of your home the real world happens.




I came across a blog of a woman who said her and her white hubby don't discuss race issues. SHe said they claim to carry on like normal married couples. I don't think the woman in question is naive but i def think she lives in a bubble of being "color blind."

But then again said woman seems to have issues herself.
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Originally posted by RachelRegina RachelRegina wrote:

Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Not everyone is ignorant to the world we are living in and the way it is slanted as far as reward and punishment goes. Not sure why ppl assume that race isnt a topic that IR couples discuss or cant go deep into discussion about. Those are necessary if anything serious is planned.  I say that knowing that some IR couples are naive and live in bubble of "we're different" or " color-blind" once you leave the comfort of your home the real world happens.




I came across a blog of a woman who said her and her white hubby don't discuss race issues. SHe said they claim to carry on like normal married couples. I don't think the woman in question is naive but i def think she lives in a bubble of being "color blind."

But then again said woman seems to have issues herself.



I don't doubt it.  Ive seen the convo that happens in IR groups and many at various ages live in this  fairytale world.  So much so that theyve convinced themselves that just because they believe it such is real for the world.  I dont understand how any blk person could get into an IR relationship without talking in depth about it. If Im willing to let u into my body or heart you got to know my mind set  and all that shapes me and my race is a part of that.

But again.... Not surprising.  Theres racist who IR date.    Theres ppl who hate the color of their own skin who IR date. The realm of IR dating isnt immune to Fucc'd up peopleLOL
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Originally posted by AshBash89 AshBash89 wrote:

I have never seen that GIF . LOLLOLCry
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We have the perspective that racism is satanic. It is much much deeper than willful ignorance to hate someone based on what they look like. satan has used it to divide mankind and it has been one of the most successful deceptions ever foisted on the human race.

We see it for what it really is and will teach our son the truth. It is up to him to decide who he will follow. But it won't be because we didn't teach him.


ETA I will never see another human being aka God's creation as an enemy--we battle not against flesh and blood. To hate anyone is a distraction from who is really behind the world's ills.


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what about the swirling men?
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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

what about the swirling men?


my bad i forgot thats not a swirl situation
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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

what about the swirling men?


my bad i forgot thats not a swirl situation
i've never understood the choice of pink women by black men! 

like they start sagging at age 25 unless they've had surgery
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they give the best head .. apparently
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