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I think the media /commercials play a big part . Young children donot see race/color . My daughter ask me at 2 why her skin was not pretty like the white kids on S street . I explain to her for the next few years how beautuful black skin color was . During the President Obama Re election , I found out first hand by working in the classroom , WHITE PARENTS!! where teaching the kids that black skin is ugly .
 
The children came back repeating the awful streotype names blacks are given my racist white folk . My daughter attends a private predominatly white school with many Arabic or Indian classmates . I ask the principal for 20 minutes to speak with the classroom regarding race issues .
 
 
The children cried and said sorry a million times . I teach India everyone is equal regardless of race . We talk about race issues often due to our crazy world . I think more white parents teach racist views to young children veres black parents based on what i have seen . I never dream to teach india racism . She will go through it all her life . I will listen and address all concerns she may have . My baby is fully aware people will hate her based on her race .


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Originally posted by Senior Detective Senior Detective wrote:

Originally posted by whitrhymes whitrhymes wrote:

I can remember kids acting like this when I was a child. I never partook in tha kind of behavior, even as a kid I felt like I knew it was ignorant. Maybe because in household there was such a diverse color range and my parents never talked about one skin tone as being letter than the other. My dad is pretty light with green eyes, my mom is much darker, a reddish brown color, my sister is darker than my mom but not so red, and I am lighter than my dad...
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My mom used to pull "the other kids dont like you cuz you pretty and light skinned" all the time
 
I yelled at my teacher when I was like 6 or 7 that she was just mad bc she was dark and ugly
 
and that's crazy bc she's lighter than my moms
 
I had to stop my sister from telling her daughter that, the other kids don't like her cuz she got a rotten attitude and so did I
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I say it is learned, either actively or passively taught. 
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I definitely remember having the black vs. brown vs. light conversations in kindergartenPinch

I got teased by other children and even grown ups for my complexion. Try growing up in a family full of color-struck negroes who swore up and down they descended from Geronimo and nemSleepy
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It is not just family. It is also the people who are around your children and other kids. My niece is an only child and she has done this. Her mom is dark, but her mom hangs around ignorant heauxs and their ratchet kids. She also is in daycare.

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Skin tone and which was "better" or "worse" was never discussed in my family. It wasn't basis for any arguments in school either. May be it's a regional thing. Never witnessed the ls/ds drama until I was in my 30's.

If chics disliked or resented me because of my skin tone when I was younger, I wasn't aware of it.

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IMO ijs media influences a child's view on skin color as well. Books, magazines, billboards, commercials, tv shows, cartoons, movies, etc. We adults can pick up on the biases when it comes to Black skin/hair but I think kids are probably picking them up unconsciously.
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I will never forget the day my little five year old cousin came over and she started crying to my aunt asking her why she couldn't be light skinned with "good hair" like everyone else in the family. She was so upset and she said it's not fair because the teachers liked the light skinned girls better, would play in their hair and tell them how pretty they were and would treat her badly. I remember us all tearing up with her. People can be so disgusting...

I think sometimes people feed into the light vs dark without even paying attention. Especially when it comes to praising features in some but not others. Kids pick these things up easily.


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at 2 and 4 my kids were talking about skin color with each other.  when i asked about the details my thing 1 says. I was tellin thing 2 that we have different skin. she says I'm brown, thing 2 is white, and mommy youre really dark brown. Ermm (cause i didnt know that)

i asked if that was problem she said no. we just all have different colors. it was later explained to me that kids see in color. thats the most i've ever heard kids say.

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