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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 29 2008 at 2:50pm
LOL @ Koala Tee.  I am single and loving it. 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 29 2008 at 9:01pm
Originally posted by Koala_Tee Koala_Tee wrote:

again i wish i was single.....


Chile, you are scaring me! Lol. I KNOW it is easier to become single than to find a relationship this day in age.  So come join the single ladies...if you dare. But I suggest you don't :)
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 30 2008 at 7:19am
Originally posted by Koala_Tee Koala_Tee wrote:

ive been in a relationship with the same person for 5 years...i envy people who can date and have fun
 
theyway my bf acting these days i will be soon living in this thread
 
So did you ever decide to make that trip to see your long lost friend?
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I probably shouldn't being writing in this discussion, but I guess I am from the other side of the spectrum.  I am single and I absolutely love being single. But I've been in serious relationships most of my teenage/young adult life and I'm only 25.

I love it because I'm getting to know myself, and what I want from a relationship. Personally I've never been one to settle, but being single has allowed me to know that I get bored really quick, and if I'm in a relationship, my guy has to always keep me on my toes. Technically I've been single for 2.5yrs and I've dated other guys. But up until a few months ago, I had been committed to my daughter's father for 5.5yrs.
 
My advice is that if you are single embrace it. Take some time to get to know yourself and what you want, so that you do not settle for something less than the best. I am single by choice, I run into guys on a constant basis that I turn down, because I know that I am not ready to commit to someone.
 
Relationships aren't fads, and they take a lot of hardwork, and more than one type of committment, which some people are not ready for.
 
For all of my spiritual sistas be patient, God will supply you with the King to your castle. Smile


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 30 2008 at 3:17pm
Originally posted by NtrlBeauty285 NtrlBeauty285 wrote:

I probably shouldn't being writing in this discussion, but I guess I am from the other side of the spectrum.  I am single and I absolutely love being single. But I've been in serious relationships most of my teenage/young adult life and I'm only 25.

I love it because I'm getting to know myself, and what I want from a relationship. Personally I've never been one to settle, but being single has allowed me to know that I get bored really quick, and if I'm in a relationship, my guy has to always keep me on my toes. Technically I've been single for 2.5yrs and I've dated other guys. But up until a few months ago, I had been committed to my daughter's father for 5.5yrs.
 
My advice is that if you are single embrace it. Take some time to get to know yourself and what you want, so that you do not settle for something less than the best. I am single by choice, I run into guys on a constant basis that I turn down, because I know that I am not ready to commit to someone.
 
Relationships aren't fads, and they take a lot of hardwork, and more than one type of committment, which some people are not ready for.
 
For all of my spiritual sistas be patient, God will supply you with the King to your castle. Smile
 
ClapClapClap Well said. ITA
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 30 2008 at 4:57pm
Originally posted by Sayra718 Sayra718 wrote:

Originally posted by tenia_star tenia_star wrote:

7 months isn't that long....girl, i did for 5yrs straight! and i loved it...
 
but i'm 28 now & still single. its cool sometimes, but there are moments when it just really sucks...like @ get togethers, i'm usually the ONLY single person there.

Me too! Or the only one who doesn't have kids.

i'm finally getting to the point where i'd rather be in a relationship than be single...which i thought would NEVER happen....i've had all the single fun i can standBig%20smile the problem now is finding men that are in the same mind frameErmm...they want a relationship, NOT a hit & run or whatever
For real!  I think that is the hardest part.  It seems all men want to do is play.
 
but i'd still rather be alone than put up with any man's bullshyt!
That's one of the main reasons I am single.


Married ladies, it hard to be single.  Its not freedom, its a game.  A worse game than being married.  At least when you married you only have to put up with 1 man's BS.
I'm just saying it would be nicer to fight with someone, than to be alone.  But not a BAD someone.Big%20smile
 
 
 
 
Yup what they said....Clap Everythang!!  especially about the games oh the games
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 30 2008 at 7:37pm
Originally posted by NtrlBeauty285 NtrlBeauty285 wrote:

I probably shouldn't being writing in this discussion, but I guess I am from the other side of the spectrum.  I am single and I absolutely love being single. But I've been in serious relationships most of my teenage/young adult life and I'm only 25.

I love it because I'm getting to know myself, and what I want from a relationship. Personally I've never been one to settle, but being single has allowed me to know that I get bored really quick, and if I'm in a relationship, my guy has to always keep me on my toes. Technically I've been single for 2.5yrs and I've dated other guys. But up until a few months ago, I had been committed to my daughter's father for 5.5yrs.
 
My advice is that if you are single embrace it. Take some time to get to know yourself and what you want, so that you do not settle for something less than the best. I am single by choice, I run into guys on a constant basis that I turn down, because I know that I am not ready to commit to someone.
 
Relationships aren't fads, and they take a lot of hardwork, and more than one type of committment, which some people are not ready for.
 
For all of my spiritual sistas be patient, God will supply you with the King to your castle. Smile 
 
 
Okay...this was very well said and all, but what do you do AFTER you've done all this. I mean, I've been single for over 2 years, I've taken all the advice about getting to know yourself, what you want, and blah blah blah, but what about when you done all this and you truly love yourself and know what you want, but that missing piece of a relationship is driving you NUTS????!! AngryConfused  THEN WHAT???


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 30 2008 at 8:38pm
Thank you yourstruly. I KNOW MYSELF! Damn! LOL.

NtrlBeauty285 even mentioned that she has to turn down men. I at least want to have that option!
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 31 2008 at 1:47am
Originally posted by jdoriginal jdoriginal wrote:

Thank you yourstruly. I KNOW MYSELF! Damn! LOL.

NtrlBeauty285 even men
tioned that she has to turn down men. I at least want to have that option!
 
lmao!LOL
 
 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 31 2008 at 4:07pm
Originally posted by jdoriginal jdoriginal wrote:

Thank you yourstruly. I KNOW MYSELF! Damn! LOL.NtrlBeauty285 even mentioned that she has to turn down men. I at least want to have that option!


Lol right! I thought I was the only one on this lol glad to see u feel me.
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