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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote TransitAngst Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 09 2013 at 10:32pm
I'm indifferent to marriage (cool if it happens Party no big deal if it doesn't Cool) and haven't the slightest interest in being a mother so...neither. I'm not 28 yet though. Like a year and a half to go.
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not having children
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I'm rolling up on 30 and am happily single. It's a feeling of freedom that is unexplained.

I enjoy the company of others but I cherish my alone time more at this point in my life.


I was married and it was nothing to write home about. It was sometimes a convenience having the in-house and guaranteed companionship but I was more so anticipating to be alone than waiting on him to get home from work.

What I expected to happen in me never did, truly enjoying lifetime companionship.


As far as kids, meh. Kids are cute but it wouldn't be far to a child as I am VERY 'get up and go'. I'd be denying my children that opportunity to have childhood memories in one 'home/school/neighborhood' as I'm moving when an opportunity to grow professionally/financially presents itself.

I'm happy to say I can accept the selfish stage I'm in and mature enough to admit that pulling a child into my paradigm isn't fair.

I'm content with walking around the house butt naked and screwing someone's brains out then laying in bed alone. Judge if u must

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Meme0887 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 10 2013 at 12:11am
I'm two years away and I still don't feel the urge to get married. I still haven't got my life together yet.
 
And kids...I really don't think they're for me
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I am 23 and single. don't careLOL. My sister is 25 she dont care eitherWink
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote carolina cutie Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 10 2013 at 12:54am
26 and a half lol

Both would be nice. Tbh fwiw imho I'd rather have a mini me over marriage before I die. Iontcurr!Approve
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (5) Thanks(5)   Quote afrokock Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 10 2013 at 2:23am
sounds like a poorly worded op that was supposed to address those that desire to have both, but got responses from those that care bout neither, mostly

however it would depend on what one desires/finds important

people get married later and have kids much later

either way its not shameful to never do both or to desire both but never achieve both
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Marriage and kids overrated.
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OP what world do you live in? Since when is 28 old???? Studies have shown that in 2013 over 70% of the people that get married before age 35 usually divorce within the first 5 years of marriage. Non merci. Je suis bonne. I'll pass. I'm waiting until the RIGHT ONE comes along. I don't live my life according to other peoples standards.
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Originally posted by Majesty02 Majesty02 wrote:

OP what world do you live in? Since when is 28 old???? Studies have shown that in 2013 over 70% of the people that get married before age 35 usually divorce within the first 5 years of marriage. Non merci. Je suis bonne. I'll pass. I'm waiting until the RIGHT ONE comes along. I don't live my life according to other peoples standards.
 
WTF are you talking about?  I never said 28 was old.  BHM posters always doing the most.  Just answer the damn question and keep it moving.  Gosh.
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