My siblings and I grew much closer after our parents both passed. Prior to that, my edest sister was deemed the most beautiful, the most intelligent and the kindest sister. It's true but we hated her for that. My brother was favored because he was the only boy and had the most in common with our father.
Now that things have changed, there isn't much of that. But my sister and I fight for our oldest sister's attention. Whenever the three of us are together, I have to hug her first or I'm inconsolable lol