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Lady ICE 
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 Posted: Jan 12 2014 at 4:45pm |
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if i feel theres something going on, its time to end it. i dont need to snoop and all that. i cant be with someone if i feel the need to check all in his stuff. not to mention it'll always come to the light anyways.
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Midna
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Posted: Jan 12 2014 at 5:36pm |
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Man, usually I say no unless you have a legit reason to but maybe I might change my answer to yes because one of my damn married friends was hitting on me hardcore last night, smh.
Dude was drunk and trying to get all kinds of dirty on me, man. I had to stop him multiple times and it made me wonder how many other female friends he does this to and which ones does he get to go all the way with. And you know his wife hasn't a clue. I'm keeping my distance from him for awhile.
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jonesable
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Location: SC
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Posted: Jan 12 2014 at 5:48pm |
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don't make it a habit when it becomes a habit you should think about leaving. But sure why not..
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ModelessDiva
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Posted: Jan 12 2014 at 6:18pm |
 Bored w/Out Me? wrote:
If he gives you reason after reason to snoop, you don't need him... |
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trudawg
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Posted: Jan 12 2014 at 6:25pm |
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My ex was a snooper. She put more effort into trying to catch me up in something than making the relationship work. Recipe for doom!
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BBpants
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Posted: Jan 12 2014 at 7:31pm |
coconess wrote:
BBpants wrote:
I'm snooping and looking thru his pockets, underwear and car 
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i didnt snoop on my last guy.. i didnt really have an opportunity though.. he rarely left his phone just sitting.. i peeked and saw his lock code but never got the chance to use it.
but going through pockets/underwear/car might be useful...
going through a guys wallet before is how i found out he had genital warts (not my recent guy) |
Not the underwear part, coco! I was joking about that  I don't want to know what's in there !!!
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Mixer
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Posted: Jan 12 2014 at 7:32pm |
Lady ICE wrote:
if i feel theres something going on, its time to end it. i dont need to snoop and all that. i cant be with someone if i feel the need to check all in his stuff. not to mention it'll always come to the light anyways. |
As sensible as always. 
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Oladunni
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Posted: Jan 12 2014 at 7:35pm |
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nope..
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sunshine321511
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Posted: Jan 12 2014 at 7:59pm |
As an old lady, I can look back on my life with clarity and say "when I snooped" the relationship was 75% of the time already "Doomed and in a negative place. Snooping is an after affect. Women and Men have to acknowledge to themselves (if no one else) that snooping occurs after an "incident" that created an atmosphere of non-trust. But in 2014, the HIV risk is so much greater. I watched the following video today and it talks about why women should protect themselves and it discusses the various "Gay" apps. Everybody on here might already know about these apps.... but I..... did not so this was educational for me. Snooping is not "good" but in 2014, snooping might save your life. Watch this video, keep an open mind, and focus on the message not on your personal beliefs.
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eanaj5
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Joined: Jun 29 2009
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Posted: Jan 12 2014 at 8:17pm |
sunshine321511 wrote:
As an old lady, I can look back on my life with clarity and say "when I snooped" the relationship was 75% of the time already "Doomed and in a negative place. Snooping is an after affect. Women and Men have to acknowledge to themselves (if no one else) that snooping occurs after an "incident" that created an atmosphere of non-trust. But in 2014, the HIV risk is so much greater. I watched the following video today and it talks about why women should protect themselves and it discusses the various "Gay" apps. Everybody on here might already know about these apps.... but I..... did not so this was educational for me. Snooping is not "good" but in 2014, snooping might save your life. Watch this video, keep an open mind, and focus on the message not on your personal beliefs.
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