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"""" To be honest? i think many females who run around checking on their mate have an insecurity with themselves and others. they don't trust men (or anyone, for that matter), yet they HAVE to have that man.. either for status, or for whatever reason - and they actually believe it's "love".""""

Correct. It's not love if you've gotta hold a vice around the guy's neck so he does not cheat.

Your friend .. is in for a miserable life with that guy
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If he gives you reason after reason to snoop, you don't need him...
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Don't need proof, if my intuition is telling me not to trust you that's all the proof I need.

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Trust, but verify.

I see no reason to snoop, I just ask. If you're telling the truth then the record will show that. If you're not telling the truth, either there will be no record, there will be excuses, or there will be deflection.

I'm certainly not going to snoop on a grown person who I can just talk to and get the answers I need.
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*plays let me smell yo dick*
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I'm sort of torn. I can see why someone would want to "verify" if something doesn't feel right.  Like if you get a "feeling" I can't say, I'm not gonna check some sh!t out & then ask just to see if he would tell the truth.

But I also see that trusting the word of your partner is super important too. Have I snooped, yes, but more of an innocent type thing. Like the cell will ring, I'll pick it up and just so happen to look at the screen as I'm passing it to him...LOL...
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I'm snooping and looking  thru his pockets, underwear and car Stern SmileStern Smile
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ive never been with anyone that made me feel like i had to snoop. and if i ever felt like that i would be out. sh*t takes too much energy and effort. it just drains you mentally and emotionally; i ain't with that.
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Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote coconess Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 12 2014 at 4:38pm
Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

I'm snooping and looking  thru his pockets, underwear and car Stern SmileStern Smile

i didnt snoop on my last guy.. i didnt really have an opportunity though.. he rarely left his phone just sitting.. i peeked and saw his lock code but never got the chance to use it. 

but going through pockets/underwear/car might be useful... 

going through a guys wallet before is how i found out he had genital warts (not my recent guy) 
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