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EPITOME 
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 Posted: Jan 06 2014 at 11:27am |
 liesnalibis wrote:
The human body does not look the same after gaining and losing a lot of weight. Ain't no way you can turn a 22 into a 12 and have it look good. |
if a vagina can snap back into shape after pushing out a child, the human body can easily slim down and look fine.
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Tbaby
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Posted: Jan 06 2014 at 11:46am |
Princess Grace wrote:
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And yeah I'd side eye you if you keep commenting how fine my husband is...respect the relationship. |
I didnt keep commenting on her BF I never said Hey Girl your man is FINNNNEEEE, I was asked was he fat too and what did he look like. I used to think it was a non issue in their home they seemed happy, then he would come over to vent to my husband. Then it was the guess what this MF bought me for my birthday when the treadmill came into the house.
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Not you, PG but ppl in general are the "you"s I'm talking about. Some body else posted they treated other women's hubbys as a brother, and commenting about his good looks to her and him.
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HowardAlumAKA
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Posted: Jan 06 2014 at 11:49am |
I just read through this whole thread, do some y'all just research certain OP's previous threads or is your memory just that good? Because if so give me some tips to improve my memory, mine has gone downhill 
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Tbaby
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Posted: Jan 06 2014 at 11:50am |
EPITOME wrote:
liesnalibis wrote:
The human body does not look the same after gaining and losing a lot of weight. Ain't no way you can turn a 22 into a 12 and have it look good. |
if a vagina can snap back into shape after pushing out a child, the human body can easily slim down and look fine. |
I think of Star Jones and how she had all that loose skin...some do look good, and some do look a little strange. Still good for them that they took steps to be healthier!
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Wildfire
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Posted: Jan 06 2014 at 12:18pm |
Princess Grace wrote:
My girlfriends man left her, he basically said it was due to her size. We were discussing it over lunch today and they all gave me the side eye because of my stance on the topic. Most were like "If he really loved you he would have stayed" , I said well if he is not physically attracted to you how long were you guys supposed to stay in a sexless relationship? She had already discussed with me that it was NOTHING happening in their bedroom.
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how big did she really get, compared to when they met? if its just a few pounds, i think its hardly likely that's the sole reason he left her.
I doubt its the reason at all....you dont just up and leave somebody because of their weight only --not someone you love at least.
But i can see how a partner letting themselves get big like all of outside (without any medical reason), can be a huge turn off and affect the relationship significantly. No sex is a biiiig issue.
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Wildfire
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Posted: Jan 06 2014 at 12:19pm |
Princess Grace wrote:
It wasn't just 5lbs either, she went from maybe a 12 when they met to I am guessing at least a size 22. |
oh dear. thats...alottt
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Wildfire
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Posted: Jan 06 2014 at 12:20pm |
EPITOME wrote:
liesnalibis wrote:
The human body does not look the same after gaining and losing a lot of weight. Ain't no way you can turn a 22 into a 12 and have it look good. |
if a vagina can snap back into shape after pushing out a child, the human body can easily slim down and look fine. |
but a vaggie aint stretched out for years though...only takes a few hours tops for that baby to come
but, yeah...a 22 can get down to a 12 and look fab. Strength training does wonders.
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Wildfire
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Posted: Jan 06 2014 at 12:22pm |
Princess Grace wrote:
OrriannaRose wrote:
Princess Grace wrote:
GG wrote:
Unless you both grew fat and comfortable together it's gonna be a problem. |
Her man was fine! |
So he's not fine anymore and she's gained weight? |
naw he still fine and fit as a fiddle she the one over there alone looking like Rasputia! |
rasssss
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carolina cutie
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Posted: Jan 06 2014 at 12:39pm |
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*Sips tea*
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EPITOME
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Posted: Jan 06 2014 at 12:52pm |
Tbaby wrote:
EPITOME wrote:
liesnalibis wrote:
The human body does not look the same after gaining and losing a lot of weight. Ain't no way you can turn a 22 into a 12 and have it look good. |
if a vagina can snap back into shape after pushing out a child, the human body can easily slim down and look fine. |
I think of Star Jones and how she had all that loose skin...some do look good, and some do look a little strange. Still good for them that they took steps to be healthier!
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I think it's bc she just dieted and did not exercise, like JHud
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