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Originally posted by liesnalibis liesnalibis wrote:

The human body does not look the same after gaining and losing a lot of weight. Ain't no way you can turn a 22 into a 12 and have it look good.
plenty of 22 slimmed down past size 12...but that takes a lot of work & dedication...many don't have the discipline to make that type of lifestyle change.
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Originally posted by mrshairdo mrshairdo wrote:

some of u speak like your entire existence as a woman is validated because you have a man and/or husband
it's so sad

omg thank you… 

I've been saying this for a while.. 
some of these people act like having a man is the greatest prize on earth 
if you have a man.. you're winning

the validation they get from it (or their posts suggest) is soooo odd to me
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Originally posted by liesnalibis liesnalibis wrote:

The human body does not look the same after gaining and losing a lot of weight. Ain't no way you can turn a 22 into a 12 and have it look good.


if a vagina can snap back into shape after pushing out a child, the human body can easily slim down and look fine.
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And yeah I'd side eye you if you keep commenting how fine my husband is...respect the relationship.

I didnt keep commenting on her BF I never said Hey Girl your man is FINNNNEEEE, I was asked was he fat too and what did he look like. I used to think it was a non issue in their home they seemed happy, then he would come over to vent to my husband. Then it was the guess what this MF bought me for my birthday when the treadmill came into the house. 


 Not you, PG but ppl in general are the "you"s I'm talking about.  Some body else posted they treated other women's hubbys as a brother, and commenting about his good looks to her and him. 
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I just read through this whole thread, do some y'all just research certain OP's previous threads or is your memory just that good? Because if so give me some tips to improve my memory, mine has gone downhill
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Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

Originally posted by liesnalibis liesnalibis wrote:

The human body does not look the same after gaining and losing a lot of weight. Ain't no way you can turn a 22 into a 12 and have it look good.


if a vagina can snap back into shape after pushing out a child, the human body can easily slim down and look fine.


I think of Star Jones and how she had all that loose skin...some do look good, and some do look a little strange.  Still good for them that they took steps to be healthier!Clap
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Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

My girlfriends man left her, he basically said it was due to her size. We were discussing it over lunch today and they all gave me the side eye because of my stance on the topic. Most were like "If he really loved you he would have stayed" , I said well if he is not physically attracted to you how long were you guys supposed to stay in a sexless relationship? She had already discussed with me that it was NOTHING happening in their bedroom.




how big did she really get, compared to when they met? if its just a few pounds, i think its hardly likely that's the sole reason he left her.

I doubt its the reason at all....you dont just up and leave somebody because of their weight only  --not someone you love at least.

But i can see how a partner letting themselves get big like all of outside (without any medical reason), can be a huge turn off and affect the relationship significantly. No sex is a biiiig issue.

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Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

It wasn't just 5lbs either, she went from maybe a 12 when they met to I am guessing at least a size 22.


oh dear. thats...alottt
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Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

Originally posted by liesnalibis liesnalibis wrote:

The human body does not look the same after gaining and losing a lot of weight. Ain't no way you can turn a 22 into a 12 and have it look good.


if a vagina can snap back into shape after pushing out a child, the human body can easily slim down and look fine.


but a vaggie aint stretched out for years though...only takes a few hours tops for that baby to comeLOL


but, yeah...a 22 can get down to a 12 and look fab. Strength training does wonders.

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