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Princess Grace 
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Joined: Feb 10 2011
Location: On Your Mind
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 Posted: Jan 06 2014 at 10:26am |
 Oladunni wrote:
Um no .. it SHOULDN'T be a deal breaker for a MARRIAGE
People divorcing left and right.....for stupid reasons... And not taking these vows seriously....
That's not real love (biblical love) .. You need to have unconditional love..
The will to love...
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Is there any reason in your perspective that divorce is a option?
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Tbaby
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Joined: Feb 27 2005
Location: Delta Quadrant
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Points: 78715
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Posted: Jan 06 2014 at 10:31am |
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It wasn't "a few" sizes, but 10 sizes more, LOL
Some
of yall acting brand new in here. A woman going from a 12 to 22 is a
huge change (pun intended). And if her man was at first supportively trying to help her and she still refused to drop the weight then she bears some responsibility for the break up.
Men
are very visual beasts. We all know that. Some are mature enough to
handle physical changes in a relationship, and some aren't.
And yeah I'd side eye you if you keep commenting how fine my husband is...respect the relationship.
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Princess Grace
Elite Member
Joined: Feb 10 2011
Location: On Your Mind
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Points: 137432
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Posted: Jan 06 2014 at 10:43am |
Tbaby wrote:
It wasn't "a few" sizes, but 10 sizes more, LOL
Some
of yall acting brand new in here. A woman going from a 12 to 22 is a
huge change (pun intended). And if her man was at first supportively trying to help her and she still refused to drop the weight then she bears some responsibility for the break up.
Men
are very visual beasts. We all know that. Some are mature enough to
handle physical changes in a relationship, and some aren't.
And yeah I'd side eye you if you keep commenting how fine my husband is...respect the relationship. |
I didnt keep commenting on her BF I never said Hey Girl your man is FINNNNEEEE, I was asked was he fat too and what did he look like. I used to think it was a non issue in their home they seemed happy, then he would come over to vent to my husband. Then it was the guess what this MF bought me for my birthday when the treadmill came into the house.
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fckwitmeuknoigotit
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Joined: Jul 28 2013
Location: pluto
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Points: 38894
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Posted: Jan 06 2014 at 10:53am |
eanaj5 wrote:
damn for better or worse just got tossed out huh?
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yup
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liesnalibis
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Joined: Nov 27 2012
Location: On de bayou
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Points: 108214
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Posted: Jan 06 2014 at 11:00am |
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The human body does not look the same after gaining and losing a lot of weight. Ain't no way you can turn a 22 into a 12 and have it look good.
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mrshairdo
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Joined: May 21 2009
Location: your dreams
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Points: 146527
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Posted: Jan 06 2014 at 11:09am |
some of u speak like your entire existence as a woman is validated because you have a man and/or husband it's so sad
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coconess
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Joined: Dec 30 2006
Location: Cali
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Points: 258472
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Posted: Jan 06 2014 at 11:10am |
mrshairdo wrote:
some of u speak like your entire existence as a woman is validated because you have a man and/or husbandit's so sad |
omg thank you…
I've been saying this for a while.. some of these people act like having a man is the greatest prize on earth if you have a man.. you're winning
Edited by coconess - Jan 06 2014 at 11:13am
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Jewelsnyc
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Joined: Nov 15 2010
Location: Brick City
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Points: 160722
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Posted: Jan 06 2014 at 11:14am |
liesnalibis wrote:
The human body does not look the same after gaining and losing a lot of weight. Ain't no way you can turn a 22 into a 12 and have it look good. |
plenty of 22 slimmed down past size 12...but that takes a lot of work & dedication...many don't have the discipline to make that type of lifestyle change.
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mrshairdo
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Joined: May 21 2009
Location: your dreams
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Points: 146527
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Posted: Jan 06 2014 at 11:16am |
coconess wrote:
mrshairdo wrote:
some of u speak like your entire existence as a woman is validated because you have a man and/or husbandit's so sad |
omg thank you…
I've been saying this for a while.. some of these people act like having a man is the greatest prize on earth if you have a man.. you're winning
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the validation they get from it (or their posts suggest) is soooo odd to me
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EPITOME
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Joined: Feb 08 2007
Location: Escarpin
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Points: 484546
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Posted: Jan 06 2014 at 11:17am |
browneyez4548 wrote:
Jewel, just tried it  ....This is what I get...each and every time -__-
The Password Confirmation does not match that held on record for your account.
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if you want to update your pic upload your picture on tinypic and use the HTML code on BHM works every time
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