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i guess bishes better get a ring on it before they go up a few sizes
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Originally posted by Oladunni Oladunni wrote:

Um no .. it SHOULDN'T be a deal breaker for a MARRIAGE

People divorcing left and right.....for stupid reasons... And not taking these vows seriously....
That's not real love (biblical love) .. You need to have unconditional love..
The will to love...

Is there any reason in your perspective that divorce is a option? 
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It wasn't "a few" sizes, but 10 sizes more, LOL

Some of yall acting brand new in here.  A woman going from a 12 to 22 is a huge change (pun intended).  And if her man was at first supportively trying to help her and she still refused to drop the weight then she bears some responsibility for the break up. 

Men are very visual beasts.  We all know that.  Some are mature enough to handle physical changes in a relationship, and some aren't.

And yeah I'd side eye you if you keep commenting how fine my husband is...respect the relationship.
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Originally posted by Tbaby Tbaby wrote:

It wasn't "a few" sizes, but 10 sizes more, LOL

Some of yall acting brand new in here.  A woman going from a 12 to 22 is a huge change (pun intended).  And if her man was at first supportively trying to help her and she still refused to drop the weight then she bears some responsibility for the break up. 

Men are very visual beasts.  We all know that.  Some are mature enough to handle physical changes in a relationship, and some aren't.

And yeah I'd side eye you if you keep commenting how fine my husband is...respect the relationship.

I didnt keep commenting on her BF I never said Hey Girl your man is FINNNNEEEE, I was asked was he fat too and what did he look like. I used to think it was a non issue in their home they seemed happy, then he would come over to vent to my husband. Then it was the guess what this MF bought me for my birthday when the treadmill came into the house. 



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Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

damn for better or worse just got tossed out huh?
yup
 
 
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The human body does not look the same after gaining and losing a lot of weight. Ain't no way you can turn a 22 into a 12 and have it look good.
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some of u speak like your entire existence as a woman is validated because you have a man and/or husband
it's so sad
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Originally posted by mrshairdo mrshairdo wrote:

some of u speak like your entire existence as a woman is validated because you have a man and/or husband
it's so sad

omg thank you… 

I've been saying this for a while.. 
some of these people act like having a man is the greatest prize on earth 
if you have a man.. you're winning


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