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Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

how big we talkin? give us a before and after image, before her man and after her man

Okay Lets say Chrissy on Love and Hip Hop first Season to Monique pre gastric bypass.
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How is calling her rasputia helping though.
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i'm all about being honest during conversations like this so i don't fault you for that buttttttt it does kinda seem like you're gloating...as if maybe she was the hot one of the group before she gained all the weight.
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to?
accurate or no?
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Absolutely. I cannot get with a jiggly stomach. However, I would try to encourage my so to lose weight and eat healthier. If he refused, then I would leave.0
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Its sad, did he try to tell her multiple times it was time to hit the gym.. or was the lack of sex supposed to be the hint?

I would want someone who is at least trying to work on the things that take away from his attractiveness. It might be shallow, but ..
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Originally posted by SoutherNtellect SoutherNtellect wrote:

How is calling her rasputia helping though.



Them bishes prolly wanted her man from jump.....
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Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

jesus op ...why you talkin about your friend like that? You gonna try to catch up her man now?

I swear I would never, he is my sons Godfather been knowing him forever. I love my friend BUT I dont think being a real friend is lying to her. Dont do it for a man then , do it for yourself so you can get up the stairs without being out of breath.


Nothing wrong with the truth but the negative way you talk about her makes me side eye you a little...
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well tbh, she didnt get that way over night, he should have said something while it was creeping up on her. find out why she was eating extra
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Waits for the stones to be thrown but here is my stance on it.....


I think if you let yourself go like that then you are not the same person he fell in love with. In her case she was almost twice the size of when they met. 

I know its supposed to be whats on the inside that counts and in a perfect world it would be BUT your man has to have some type of attraction to the physical you or it wont work.

Once your man starts making comments its a problem.

If all you get for your birthday is a treadmill he is trying to tell you something.

He would give her the side eye at restaurants.Cry

Every time I would bring up the gym she would say my man had me brainwashed, well brainwashed or whatever my man was still having sex with me.


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