Waits for the stones to be thrown but here is my stance on it.....
I think if you let yourself go like that then you are not the same person he fell in love with. In her case she was almost twice the size of when they met.
I know its supposed to be whats on the inside that counts and in a perfect world it would be BUT your man has to have some type of attraction to the physical you or it wont work.
Once your man starts making comments its a problem.
If all you get for your birthday is a treadmill he is trying to tell you something.
He would give her the side eye at restaurants.
Every time I would bring up the gym she would say my man had me brainwashed, well brainwashed or whatever my man was still having sex with me.