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The whole debate became murky once her past was introduced...IA w princess about keeping it real on the weight and not being shocked when your non-husband leaves after 13 yrs of weight gain.  They weren't gonna make it to the altar and he probably cheated the whole time.  She should've dropped him yrs ago for one of the many bbw lovers out there since she's not interested in losing the lbs.
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Originally posted by india100 india100 wrote:

I only read the op . When a man leaves you due to weight gain , imagine what would happen if your health fail such as Cancer for example . Live your life and forget about him . Happy new year everyone .

You are correct India and I am quite sure more was going on in that house than Dieting talk. Happy New Year!
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Originally posted by sugabanana sugabanana wrote:


She acknowledged the mistake like 15 times. She said it was a poor decision and she regret even doing in. It was a low point in her life and it was morally incorrect. I think in order for BHM to forgive her she will need to give her kidney to a child in need.

that made me laugh 

but no.. i think ppl missed her admitting she was wrong.. 
this morning jewel said something in random thoughts about how everyone makes mistakes.. but she didnt acknowledge her mistake.. (or something like that.. dont quote me) 




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...the OP doesnt seem like a biotch to me, or a frenemy....she tried to encourage the girl to workout, etc....

...i didnt realise it was cool to drag things said in the confessions thread into other threads.

But this.is.BHM.

I dont see anything wrong with her pointing out to her friend that her weight may really have been an issue in the relationship. The only person who deserves a boo in this picture is the boyfriend. He used her weight to leave. I'm almost sure that wasnt the problem.


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Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

did PG admit/acknowledge that she made a mistake? 

im team PG but i think the issue ppl have with her is that they feel she didnt acknowledge her mistake.. and doesnt seem regretful to them.. 

like, 'yea i fcked him and...?' 
if she would have seemed remorseful this thread wouldnt have been as long.. imo. 


I said it was a mistake, I can't undo it and I really don't see the need to say sorry to a woman who wasn't Michelle. Maybe I am missing something??? Shrugs shoulders..... People kept saying BHM never forgets, since I posted the sorrid story in the Confessions thread a few weeks ago I didnt expect them to forget. Confused 

Grace is keeping all her organs so they can hang that up. 

If it wasnt so much snow outside I would go to the spa but there is always tomorrowSmile.


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Tell her move to Jamaica. They love FLUFFIES there. The bigger the better.
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Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

It wasn't just 5lbs either, she went from maybe a 12 when they met to I am guessing at least a size 22.
 
I'm a plus size but I will say....size does make a difference.  This is a big size change.  It is one thing if you are married to the person and they get sick or gain over say 20 years...but in the dating world...it is hard for men to "accept" weight issues when 1) they do not like plus size women  2) The particular man...has  a preference of smaller sizes....Men have a lot of options so if they don't like PLUS sizes..they don't have to date a plus size person..... their are so many OPTIONS.
 
 


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^^lmfao @ fluffies...thats not generally true though....
yes, they tend to like thicker women...but not necessarily huge women...there are the men who do of course

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Originally posted by Wildfire Wildfire wrote:

^^lmfao @ fluffies...thats not generally true though....
yes, they tend to like thicker women...but not necessarily huge women...there are the men who do of course

 
 
Real talk......I went to a wedding with a fluffy and omg..she had more men after her than Halle look alike


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...if for 13 years, he stayed in shape, they only have one child, and she has no issues preventing her from being at a healthier/more aesthetically pleasing weight, save for milkshakes, fries and couchpotatoitis...then he has all right to take issue with her weight

...now that i really think about it, if that's truly why he left....I'm not sure i can be very mad at him. She did get quite big if the OPs estimation is correct.

But did he even try to help her into any sort of fitness programme? i dont recall seeing that anywhere.. Grace?

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