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    Posted: Jan 05 2014 at 10:03pm
My girlfriends man left her, he basically said it was due to her size. We were discussing it over lunch today and they all gave me the side eye because of my stance on the topic. Most were like "If he really loved you he would have stayed" , I said well if he is not physically attracted to you how long were you guys supposed to stay in a sexless relationship? She had already discussed with me that it was NOTHING happening in their bedroom. 

Now I know others who were Team Eat Cupcakes (in her face anyway) have pulled shade about her weight but I just sat there like Are yall bishes fo real?ConfusedConfused . They left me to look like the devil when I know one of them hoez is taking ADHD pills to stay skinny.Confused


So should weight be a deal breaker or was he just shallow?



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It wasn't just 5lbs either, she went from maybe a 12 when they met to I am guessing at least a size 22.
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How much did she weigh when they got together?

Nevermind. LOL

From 12 to 22 is a big difference. 


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Unless you both grew fat and comfortable together it's gonna be a problem.
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Originally posted by GG GG wrote:

Unless you both grew fat and comfortable together it's gonna be a problem.

Her man was fine!
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im hurrrr for this thread and the numbers its gonna dew


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Waits.....

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Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

Originally posted by GG GG wrote:

Unless you both grew fat and comfortable together it's gonna be a problem.

Her man was fine!

So he's not fine anymore and she's gained weight?
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Some people just expect certain things no shade.
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