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Originally posted by used2braid used2braid wrote:

Ok so hes kinda possessive, who isn't? He just had a bad run with women and is taking it out on me like some women do on men to a certain extent.

It will probably get better once he sees that he can trust me.


This reminds me of that made-for-bet movie N-Secure. The girl that started dating the crazy guy after him and his fiancee broke up.
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Feel sorry for this girl.  She had clearly made some mistakes and there's no need to go in on her.  I'm sure she knows better now.
 
As for the comment on the girl giving her a side eye, most insecure chicks do this mess when it comes down to their dudes.  I get side eyes all the time and I get it for unnecessary reasons. 
 
Waiting at check-out at the Supermarket, get the side eye.
Going thru check-point, get the side eye.
Bumped into my boy cousin, get the side eye from his gf.
 
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Originally posted by Katrenia Katrenia wrote:

He knew and now and you know; it was his last chance to get at you before you left town. He played the lecherous bastard role, I wouldn't trust him again. 
He was probably pretending to be more intoxicated than he actually was so he could use that as an excuse.

 

EXACTLY!!!

 

 

About the proposal after 4 flippen months.. girl, you need to start using your head about men. Confused

 

Guy number 1) was a false friend - keeps leaning on that 'I was drinking'  excuse but don't believe him ... stay away. This is how 'date rape' happens .. and then no one is gonna believe you because 'why' would you be alone with a guy that already showed who he was? See what I mean? A woman has got to watch herself. He messed up so .. f him..

 

Guy number 2) Whoaaa .. he is moving WAAAY to fast. What's the rush? For the average person it might take close to 4 years to be sure he's 'the one'. Does Guy number 2 tell you what to do? Is he trying to get into your head too much because these kindof guys that wanna hurryupandmarryyou .. are typically control freaks.

 

Take your time .. because once you are married to this kind of guy ... you are HIS and the walls will start closing in on you .. so to speak. Watch out.

 

If it's REAL between to two of you.. another year or so will no make any difference.

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Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

Smile I give good advice... It may have a sarcastic/humorous (at least to me ) coating but I think its good stuff.
When folks ask questions maybe they should include if they want a str8 answer with no filter, a str8 answer with fluff or just want they want to hear to confirm the choice already made.
 
Correct.
 
When you ask for advice ....you cannot control the kind of advice you get unless you qualify your question by saying something like.
 
- I only wanna hear 'good news'
- I don't wanna hear no 'bad news'
- I only want you to .. basically agree with what I think
 
... and so forth. Otherwise you will get varying opinions.
 
Best not to post your personal problems if you are not prepared to receive input.
 
btw: I don't think I have read any 50+ women asking for relationship advice on this board. Why? because we've seen it all so we are not confused by men anymore. It is the young women that come up here with these stupid stories and then get mad when you tell them the truth .. that we all can see DUH! Confused
 
Let's get real.
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Originally posted by Midna Midna wrote:

Originally posted by used2braid used2braid wrote:

Ok so hes kinda possessive, who isn't?  Lot's of guys! DUH! He just had a bad run with women and is taking it out on me like some women do on men to a certain extent.

It will probably get better once he sees that he can trust me. She says as the house is burning down around her ears.



Pre-Battered Woman Syndrome
 
 
 
ABSOLUTELY! 
 
Which explains WHY this guy wants to hurry and marry her! DUH! He got one .. best to wrap it up all nice and legal before she changes her mind!
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