I told im becasuse I picked him up on the way back home an he could tell something was obviously wrong. This guy was a good friend so I was pretty bummed right?
As for what happened, he ended up texting me this morning and my boyfriend saw it while I was sleeping. He said:
Hey I've been trying to figure out why your mad at me and I really cant remember. It must be something horrible. Do you remember when I told you I wouldnt get drunk around you when we became friends thats because when I'm drunk I'm a diff person, not a good person at all. you've become a great friend to me and I consider you like a cousin. I want you to know that I would never disrespect you. I'll ask for forgiveness at church today and hopefully one day you can forgive me too.
So yah. My boyfriend saw it, flipped out so more and told me not to reply. He saw that i was a bit hesitant about not replying so he basically took it upon himself to message him on Facebook and tell him that he wants to talk to him at work tomorrow and to not message me anymore. My friend basically wrote back like "I'm soo sorry I dont know what I did...you can hit me if you want. blah blah blah. I wont message your girl anymore but please just forgive me.
At this point, I'm feeling kinda hesitant. I just want to say I forgive you, and move on but I dont want him to not respect me or my relationship or piss off my boyfriend. But it's not like he tried to rape me you know. Just bad judgement I guess. Yo..can this even be salvaged? I just feel like things will be MAD awkward so I dont even know how to turn this friendship right except to let time heal wounds and play it out or just cut if out.
Anyways, I'm not really that concerned in the long-run, Im just sad I lost a friend that I really trusted. Lesson learned. On another note, my man just asked my parents for their blessing to propose soon. Long distance though
Thanks for all the insight..