First of all, great hair pics. You've got the length retention figured out.
Since you are hesitant about losing your curls, my primary response is ,don't do it. Once you do it it will take a while to return if you regret it.
Don't do it as long as there is doubt.
If you really want to relax it, then relax it on a day when you are not frustrated and just want the straight hair thing with the lower maintenance it requires.
Basically, if you relax make sure it's 100% your decision and that you are a 100% comfortable with it.
Also, if you feel like taking care of your hair requires too much of your time, you might find out about time saving methods to care for your hair in it's current state on the forums.
My advice to you is, think really hard about what it is you want and if you want to relax it, then you can relax it, but if you still want to be able to preserve those curls but with lower maintenance then ask the questions for the answers you need.
| CherryBlossom wrote:|
your hair is so luscious!! do whatever you feel comfortable with but damnit!!