Black Hair Media Forum Homepage
BHM BHM BHM
Forum Home Forum Home > Lets Talk > Talk, Talk, and More Talk
  New Posts New Posts RSS Feed - Should I feel bad for not wanting to do this?
  FAQ FAQ  Forum Search   Register Register  Login Login
Angkor Cambodian Hair
 

Should I feel bad for not wanting to do this?

 
 Post Reply Post Reply Page  123 7>
It Always Begin With Beautiful Hair

Bootiful Cream



Author
 Rating: Topic Rating: 2 Votes, Average 1.00  Topic Search Topic Search  Topic Options Topic Options
tropical-punch View Drop Down
Elite Member
Elite Member
Avatar

Joined: Dec 03 2008
Status: Offline
Points: 56180
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote tropical-punch Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Topic: Should I feel bad for not wanting to do this?
    Posted: Jun 29 2014 at 4:08pm
So my mom asked me if I can take my sister to a pool party in a couple weeks. The thing is I live 2 hours away from them. The pool party is where they live so I would have to drive up there take her, drive back home. No one else can take her apparently. I was not planning on visiting that particular weekend. I planned on coming this weekend (4th of July). I reluctantly said yes. Now I'm regretting it because I really just want to relax and not do all that driving. She said she'd give me gas money but still........
Back to Top
Sponsored Links


Back to Top
Gkisses View Drop Down
Elite Member
Elite Member
Avatar

Joined: Jul 12 2008
Location: CrackaIsland
Status: Offline
Points: 402607
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (7) Thanks(7)   Quote Gkisses Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 29 2014 at 4:10pm
She didnt have any friends going to the pool party that could take her? Seems weird and a bit inconsiderate to ask someone who lives two hrs away for a ride locally. I mean the money used on gas couldve been used on a cab. I would've said no.
Back to Top
ms_wonderland View Drop Down
Elite Member
Elite Member
Avatar

Joined: Apr 05 2009
Location: TTT
Status: Offline
Points: 310114
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote ms_wonderland Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 29 2014 at 4:14pm
Do they live in the country?  How old is she?  Can she and one of her friends take the bus or something?

I cut off chauffering services for my lil sis when I came home early from my evening, drove an hour to pick her and bff up from a hs football game and 6 other kids got in the car.  I didn't kick them out because it was late but I learned cars are not equipped for that many people and my car was going sooooooo slow that I had to take the streets across the entire city.  Just say no, for future reference.
Back to Top
Blac1Chyna View Drop Down
VIP Member
VIP Member
Avatar

Joined: Apr 06 2013
Status: Offline
Points: 25486
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote Blac1Chyna Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 29 2014 at 4:15pm
why would she even ask you to do that? your sister cant take a bus? or just not go if she cant find her own way?
Back to Top
tatee View Drop Down
Elite Member
Elite Member
Avatar

Joined: Jun 09 2006
Status: Offline
Points: 386301
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (19) Thanks(19)   Quote tatee Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 29 2014 at 4:18pm
stop saying yes to things when you really mean no.
Back to Top
sugabanana View Drop Down
Elite Member
Elite Member
Avatar

Joined: Dec 08 2011
Location: Mafia Town
Status: Offline
Points: 92628
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (3) Thanks(3)   Quote sugabanana Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 29 2014 at 4:20pm
Just say NO Ma'am!! 2 hours away for a party down the street? Nope.

Edited by sugabanana - Jun 29 2014 at 4:21pm
Back to Top
rickysrose View Drop Down
Platinum Member
Platinum Member
Avatar

Joined: Jun 28 2006
Status: Offline
Points: 220885
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (3) Thanks(3)   Quote rickysrose Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 29 2014 at 4:23pm
did your sister beg you and let you know how important it is to her?

Is Mom unsure about the people holding the party, does she want your sis chaperoned?

If she'll be safe perhaps the sister should ask friends who can give her a ride and get it approved by Mom


Back to Top
thewonderfulwa View Drop Down
Elite Member
Elite Member
Avatar

Joined: May 19 2007
Status: Offline
Points: 53223
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote thewonderfulwa Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 29 2014 at 4:25pm
Originally posted by tatee tatee wrote:

stop saying yes to things when you really mean no.


I had to learn this
Back to Top
Sleek View Drop Down
Elite Member
Elite Member
Avatar

Joined: Mar 23 2008
Location: Happy
Status: Offline
Points: 28348
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote Sleek Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 29 2014 at 4:30pm
I think its unfair. Stop commiting yourself to things YOU don't want to do........the driving alone is four hours out of your day gone already....
Back to Top
JamCaygirl View Drop Down
Elite Member
Elite Member
Avatar

Joined: Jun 03 2006
Status: Offline
Points: 43816
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (4) Thanks(4)   Quote JamCaygirl Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 29 2014 at 4:36pm
Are you the same person that didnt want your little sister to come spend time with you?
Do you secretly not like little sis?LOL
Back to Top
Get Longer Healthier Faster Growing Hair
Get Healthier Stronger Longer Hair
Glam Twinz
Weave Connection
Little Black Scarf
Human Hair Wigs
Wefting Training
Brazilian Hair
Brazilian Hair
Wig and Hair Extension on Amazon
 Post Reply Post Reply Page  123 7>
  Share Topic   

Forum Jump Forum Permissions View Drop Down