Black Hair Media Forum Homepage
BHM BHM BHM
Forum Home Forum Home > Lets Talk > Talk, Talk, and More Talk
  New Posts New Posts RSS Feed - Should I feel bad for not wanting to do this?
  FAQ FAQ  Forum Search   Register Register  Login Login
Extensions Plus
 

Should I feel bad for not wanting to do this?

 
 Post Reply Post Reply Page  <1 34567>






Author
 Rating: Topic Rating: 2 Votes, Average 1.00  Topic Search Topic Search  Topic Options Topic Options
coconess View Drop Down
Elite Member
Elite Member
Avatar

Joined: Dec 30 2006
Location: Cali
Status: Offline
Points: 228678
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote coconess Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 29 2014 at 7:33pm
im surprised at some of these responses….. i skimmed though. 

im definitely not the most respectful good child… and i wouldnt want to do it.. and no OP shouldnt feel bad about not wanting to.. it does seem crazy.. but if the mom asked me to i most likely would. 

if i really really wanted to get out of it, i might say something like, 'sigh….. i have a lot of work to do.. but alright…' school is the most important thing to most parents.. if she didnt say, 'its okay.. ill see if her friends mom can pick her up' then that means shes probably already exhausted all options.. 
we do many things we dont wanna do or think is necessary for parents. 

but id like to know how old this sister is… 
Back to Top
Sponsored Links


Back to Top
jonesable View Drop Down
Elite Member
Elite Member
Avatar

Joined: Oct 12 2010
Location: SC
Status: Offline
Points: 288659
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote jonesable Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 29 2014 at 7:37pm
For a pool party though??
Lol I'd see if it was for something.

II don't think my mama would ask me for something that crazy and we have enough fam in the area that someone would take her.

But a two hour drive just for a pool party is crazy to me.

I'd see if you were going home anyway
Back to Top
JamCaygirl View Drop Down
Elite Member
Elite Member
Avatar

Joined: Jun 03 2006
Status: Offline
Points: 43761
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote JamCaygirl Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 29 2014 at 8:16pm
Originally posted by Lite Brite Lite Brite wrote:

SN, but isn't trop the one who never returns to her threads to give us more info/updates?


that's usually sbrownieLOL
Back to Top
ThoughtCouture View Drop Down
Elite Member
Elite Member
Avatar

Joined: Jun 08 2006
Location: southside holla
Status: Offline
Points: 241323
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote ThoughtCouture Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 29 2014 at 8:20pm
gas money for a 4 hour trip plus to and fro once you get there?  seems like it would be cheaper to get a car service.  or cab or uber.
Back to Top
rickysrose View Drop Down
Platinum Member
Platinum Member
Avatar

Joined: Jun 28 2006
Status: Offline
Points: 220865
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote rickysrose Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 29 2014 at 8:37pm
To me the deciding factor would be if this was really important to my sister and whether or not it would be safe for her to get there any other way or if there was any concern about her being there (if she needed a chaperone)

I remember driving two hours out of my way to drive groceries and mom's care packages to my sister st university

Don't feel bad if you do it.   I wouldn't worry about it if it were just a regular pool party and the sister wasn't too invested in it.

if you genuinely don't want to it, talk to your sister


Back to Top
ThoughtCouture View Drop Down
Elite Member
Elite Member
Avatar

Joined: Jun 08 2006
Location: southside holla
Status: Offline
Points: 241323
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote ThoughtCouture Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 29 2014 at 8:56pm
did we find out how old the sister was?
Back to Top
coconess View Drop Down
Elite Member
Elite Member
Avatar

Joined: Dec 30 2006
Location: Cali
Status: Offline
Points: 228678
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote coconess Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 29 2014 at 9:00pm
the sister is 14. 

Back to Top
femmemichelle View Drop Down
Elite Member
Elite Member
Avatar

Joined: Jun 12 2007
Status: Offline
Points: 100029
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote femmemichelle Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 29 2014 at 9:09pm
Make up an excuse right now. Like right this minute. And learn to say no in the future.
Back to Top
DiorShowGirl View Drop Down
Elite Member
Elite Member
Avatar

Joined: Jan 17 2010
Location: US - Pennsylvania
Status: Offline
Points: 41619
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote DiorShowGirl Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 29 2014 at 9:15pm
Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

the sister is 14. 




only 14,,,,yes she should do it...if she were way older then no...but only 14 yes...
Back to Top
SoutherNtellect View Drop Down
Platinum Member
Platinum Member
Avatar

Joined: Jan 02 2007
Status: Offline
Points: 198848
Post Options Post Options   Thanks (3) Thanks(3)   Quote SoutherNtellect Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 29 2014 at 9:18pm
Originally posted by JamCaygirl JamCaygirl wrote:

Originally posted by Lite Brite Lite Brite wrote:

SN, but isn't trop the one who never returns to her threads to give us more info/updates?


that's usually sbrownieLOL

both of them
Back to Top
Get Longer Healthier Faster Growing Hair
Get Healthier Stronger Longer Hair
Glam Twinz
Weave Connection
Human Hair Wigs
Wefting Training
Brazilian Hair
Brazilian Hair
Wig and Hair Extension on Amazon
 Post Reply Post Reply Page  <1 34567>
  Share Topic   

Forum Jump Forum Permissions View Drop Down