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SN, but isn't trop the one who never returns to her threads to give us more info/updates?
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I would not be excited about doing it, but I will.

If I really wanted to go someplace as a young person, and have an older sibling accompany me was the only way I will be allowed to go, I would want them to do it for me.

Mom does not trust anyone else to accompany your sister.
Can't really blame her for that.
Too much crap going on in the world today.



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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote coconess Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 29 2014 at 7:33pm
im surprised at some of these responses….. i skimmed though. 

im definitely not the most respectful good child… and i wouldnt want to do it.. and no OP shouldnt feel bad about not wanting to.. it does seem crazy.. but if the mom asked me to i most likely would. 

if i really really wanted to get out of it, i might say something like, 'sigh….. i have a lot of work to do.. but alright…' school is the most important thing to most parents.. if she didnt say, 'its okay.. ill see if her friends mom can pick her up' then that means shes probably already exhausted all options.. 
we do many things we dont wanna do or think is necessary for parents. 

but id like to know how old this sister is… 
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For a pool party though??
Lol I'd see if it was for something.

II don't think my mama would ask me for something that crazy and we have enough fam in the area that someone would take her.

But a two hour drive just for a pool party is crazy to me.

I'd see if you were going home anyway
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tp did you pick up your sister that other time?

do you usually go out of your way like this?
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Originally posted by Lite Brite Lite Brite wrote:

SN, but isn't trop the one who never returns to her threads to give us more info/updates?


that's usually sbrownieLOL
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gas money for a 4 hour trip plus to and fro once you get there?  seems like it would be cheaper to get a car service.  or cab or uber.
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To me the deciding factor would be if this was really important to my sister and whether or not it would be safe for her to get there any other way or if there was any concern about her being there (if she needed a chaperone)

I remember driving two hours out of my way to drive groceries and mom's care packages to my sister st university

Don't feel bad if you do it.   I wouldn't worry about it if it were just a regular pool party and the sister wasn't too invested in it.

if you genuinely don't want to it, talk to your sister


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she may have mentioned her age in another thread
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did we find out how old the sister was?
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