| BeanieBabiesMommy wrote:|
| iliveforbhm wrote:|
Glad I don't got kids.
I pitty you, children are a blessing.
Children can be a blessing or they can be a tremendous burden.
Especially when there is no husband in the home to suport the mother emotionally and finanially and to help make parental decisions, take responsibilty, pay the bills, NURTURE and SPEND TIME with the child so that he grows up feeling good about himself so that he can get a decent education and succeed in life. The list goes on and on.
I think in this situation ... this poor child has come into this world WANTING a great deal of the stuff mentioned above ... that he will never get.
The poor child has been cheated out of the best chance in life. This is really unfair to the child and selfish of the mother to be so short-sighted.
I don't think there's a problem dating men with children. Everyome has a past What? You should never date a man because you have THIS child? Now how mucg sense does that make?
It's about the people. If the man has childen but is in no way caught up in the ex's life... there will not be a problem with him having children.
If the man has children but still has an intimate relationship with this woman .. that means he is UNAVAILABLE for anything other than a bootycall with you. DUH! So your child was born out of a booty call situation. Geesh!
Edited by Printer_Ink - Jan 22 2014 at 6:25am