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he's prob still having sex with her if she is acting like that
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Originally posted by BrookeRenee BrookeRenee wrote:

I feel like since that is his baby momma, that is his responsibility. You should never have to confront her, that is his job. These type of situations are so messy and create so much unnecessary BS. He needs to check her immediately and put her in her place. If he doesn't, as you already eluded to in your post, you may wanna reevaluate the relationship. Especially since baby mothers never go away, they'll always be apart of the man's life, atleast somewhat. The last thing you want is for that to be a regular, never-ending problem in your relationship.
this here.  he should handle that.  how did you see the text, did he show you? at the end of the day, you have to decide what is best for you. is he and this relationship worth it?

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I agree he should be the one to handle her, unless she says something to you directly then you have every right to say something. She still has feelings for him if she sending him texts saying "wifey" so she is probably doing that knowing you will see the messages and flare up . I dunno if its the right choice too leave(cause aren't you pregnant-read from other posts). I would let him know exactly how u feel n hopefully he will respect you enough to tell his baby moms she needs to stop this crap immediately.
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is his name beanie?
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Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

is his name beanie?
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You don't confront no damn body! You need to break up with him. Unnecessary Bullsh*t.
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Originally posted by PunkyBrewsterLSA PunkyBrewsterLSA wrote:

You don't confront no damn body! You need to break up with him. Unnecessary Bullsh*t.

^^ This
Honestly it sounds like they are both holding on to one another. I know damn well I wouldn't even entertain a "why we didn't work things out" conversation or send pics to the new gf to my daughter's father. I mean, why? They obviously have something going on or still have feelings for one another. I think that you should get out while you can. AVOID all of the drama. Well, that's what I would do.
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What did he say in return to his babymother? Some chicks have a hard time letting go of their exes. Ive been through something similar myself (he had no kids though), but when it comes to babymothers, that is normally guaranteed pusssy you can get any time. Its already in the bag. Most babymothers will let their babyfather hit any time he asks and the guys know it. Ive even seen guys brag about it. I think some people on this site have even said the same exact thing. So OP, how did he respond? Def keep in mind that these 2 are going to be in constant contact with one another bc of the child so he damn sure shouldve said something
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Originally posted by ScorpioLuv ScorpioLuv wrote:

What did he say in return to his babymother? Some chicks have a hard time letting go of their exes. Ive been through something similar myself (he had no kids though), but when it comes to babymothers, that is normally guaranteed pusssy you can get any time. Its already in the bag. Most babymothers will let their babyfather hit any time he asks and the guys know it. Ive even seen guys brag about it. I think some people on this site have even said the same exact thing. So OP, how did he respond? Def keep in mind that these 2 are going to be in constant contact with one another bc of the child so he damn sure shouldve said something

I hate that sentiment.
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Wait..aren't you pregnant by him? If so, it is kind of hard to truly kick him to the curb. I wouldn't get in the middle of all of that. Let him deal with her..just remove yourself from the situation. Focus on you and what you need to do that way you aren't stressing. Good luck...but truly the best option is to ignore it in your situation. She could be hurt/mad that you are now pregnant, so just leave the situation alone and tell your boyfriend to keep any information regarding her to himself.
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