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Bunnyahh 
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 Posted: Nov 19 2012 at 10:24pm |
 princesshoneybee wrote:
Atleast your dad didn't sacrifice your family for his sex addiction and refuse to feed you so that he could buy prostitutes and then beat your mother. Someone else has it worse, you are a grown woman and I don't see how this concerns you unless it was an affair. |
who did this happen to?/ 
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femmefatale85
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Posted: Nov 19 2012 at 10:26pm |
princesshoneybee wrote:
Atleast your dad didn't sacrifice your family for his sex addiction and refuse to feed you so that he could buy prostitutes and then beat your mother. Someone else has it worse, you are a grown woman and I don't see how this concerns you unless it was an affair. |
It's not a competition. Her pain is her pain. Her situation isn't any less significant because someone else had a worse one.
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Posted: Nov 19 2012 at 10:28pm |
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You'll be alright.
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Posted: Nov 19 2012 at 10:32pm |
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Man. Some of you are so mean.
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Posted: Nov 19 2012 at 10:33pm |
Princess be killing me i swear   @OP.... being mad wont change anything. Express this to ur dad and see what happens. There's no guarantee he'll be there for this child either so yall mind have something to bond over. If he has matured over time then he can manage to be a father figure to the both of u but aint no point of hindering ur own progress because he lack father skills.
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Posted: Nov 19 2012 at 10:46pm |
Posters already said what I'd say
You have to settle this in your mind and spirit, if you can't do it alone, seek a therapist
Realize you have control over how you feel about this, how you react, use this control wisely and to your benefit
He could end up in jail again and be an absent dad to the baby, don't sweat that, just wish him the opportunity to do better
Build a relationship as much as possible, a monthly dinner/lunch to catch up, a basketball game, whatever you both have in common, but set up your own tradition
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Posted: Nov 19 2012 at 10:47pm |
I understand how you feel. He might end up loving that child, making wonderful memories and being the perfect daddy, when he left you all alone for so many years. Everything you wanted, she will get, and it sucks. It sounds selfish and childish to some people, but being in that situation makes you feel like your father failed on you, and that instead of him going out and making more babies, he should've spent his energies on caring for his 1st one  . Girl, let me give you an e-hug |
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Posted: Nov 19 2012 at 10:48pm |
femmefatale85 wrote:
princesshoneybee wrote:
Atleast your dad didn't sacrifice your family for his sex addiction and refuse to feed you so that he could buy prostitutes and then beat your mother. Someone else has it worse, you are a grown woman and I don't see how this concerns you unless it was an affair. |
It's not a competition. Her pain is her pain. Her situation isn't any less significant because someone else had a worse one.
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I mean for real. With that reaction Princess you are undoubtedly a sh*tty person
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EPITOME
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Posted: Nov 19 2012 at 10:51pm |
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yes, i would be upset. this happens also when men have children with a baby momma and are bad fathers, and then get married and have children with their wives and are good fathers. it's hurtful to the illegitimate kids.
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Posted: Nov 19 2012 at 10:57pm |
EPITOME wrote:
femmefatale85 wrote:
princesshoneybee wrote:
Atleast your dad didn't sacrifice your family for his sex addiction and refuse to feed you so that he could buy prostitutes and then beat your mother. Someone else has it worse, you are a grown woman and I don't see how this concerns you unless it was an affair. |
It's not a competition. Her pain is her pain. Her situation isn't any less significant because someone else had a worse one.
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I mean for real. With that reaction Princess you are undoubtedly a sh*tty person |
Sorry I sorta feel like and agree with Princess. It might sound harsh but she should realize its not that bad, as long as her father is alive she has a chance to build a relationship with him. At least she knows he wasnt around due to circumstance and not by choice.
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