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I just want to say it is great how you and your family are helping her. I hope she is ok. 
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Originally posted by purple.chuckz purple.chuckz wrote:

Originally posted by tropical-punch tropical-punch wrote:

I'm trying to resist the urge to say summa y'all ain't sh*t.



i thought everyone in here was pretty supportive. Confused
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Hey guys. Sorry ive been m.i.a I have alot going on lately.

Anyways the move went pretty good in the end. When we got there she was arguing with him. He looked surprised to see all of us there. I wasnt expecting him to be there. So my dad took him to the back room and talked to him. Im not sure what was said. But he was surprisingly calm afterwards. He didnt really put up a fight or anything.

Ole girl on the other hand was going off! Jumping in his face and calling him all kinds of b*tch a** faggy a** Brothas and whatnot. I thought it was built up anger but i later found out that this is the norm for them to call each other names like that.

So im getting alittle annoyed because im thinking " We are here to get you out as quickly and safely as possible" and she is jumping in his face and smushing him against his head. I told her to stop and focus on her and the baby and lets get out of there.

So to make a long story short. She was supposed to have left with me. But she went back upstairs jumped in his face again and they started rumbling while my dad and them were moving the furniture downstairs. Me and the baby were already in the car. My husband and brother went up there and "straightened" him out. He (her husband) said he was done with her and her bs and that she could go. He said he was done with the marriage. I drove her to her new place while my fam continued to move her stuff. I suggested that she get a restraining order even though he acts like he doesnt care about her leaving. She said she might.

The last time i spoke with her was thursday. I called to check on her and the baby. She told me that she was taking him to court for cs and custody. So hopefully she sticks with it and doesnt go back.
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Question. Is she your family memeber or is he your family member? (blood relative)
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She mentioned earlier that the male was her cousin and the female is his wife.
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Originally posted by beautiful_hair beautiful_hair wrote:

She mentioned earlier that the male was her cousin and the female is his wife.
ok. thanks Yall need to speak to him about getting some help and counselling. Hopefully thats what your dad spoke with him about.
 
 
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They sound toxic for one another. 
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Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

They sound toxic for one another. 



they are two people who dont need to be together at all
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Originally posted by Gkisses Gkisses wrote:

They sound toxic for one another. 
 
this!
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I am glad that you kept us updated on this. I do not know why I didn't see the part about her moving until now and it was written on Dec 9th. I am glad that she had a plan of action and I hope she sticks to her guns about custody and child support.
 
Your male relative needs to see a counselor and seek some kind of help for himself.
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