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I said I would investigate several times, even before you came into the thread so I'm not sure what point you're still trying to make

and cream, you are jumping to conclusions as well ... we're all postulating

and I'm still sorry that your ex abused you Hug no one should have to live through that, even though it's too common


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Originally posted by Cream1970 Cream1970 wrote:


Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

the pics were right beside the recent baby pics ....

she kept pics of herself battered and bruised instead of the actual boyfriend ... to reminisce?  

maybe 

but I'll find out because imma investigate

 
I still have mine from when my ex bf  beat my azz and that was 8 yrs ago. I can upload them into an album with recent pics so they can be in any sequence. Someone could look thru my phone and assume the guy I'm dating now is beating my ass..You never know so I suggest asking/investigating before assuming. People die everyday because someone didn't have all the evidence and assumed. Thats all I'm saying.




creampie i understand what you are saying. but i dont think that is the case with this situation. but i will find out tomorrow.

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I hope she gets the help she needs ASAP, esp w/ a baby being involved. Please keep us updated OP.

 

Ricky, I apologize for my snappy reply. Hug 
 
 
I am sure we are all on the same page with wanting this situation to not be what the OP suspects, but it likely is, and with the parties involved getting the help they need ASAP.
 
Don't want another Jovan Belcher situation.
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It's ok cream ... it's a sensitive subject, things get heated, especially if you lived it through it, I understand

now if it was another subject we could have spent the next 10 pages chewing each other's jugulars LOL
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Ricky, you are absolutely right!
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Call her. My bf's aunt was murdered by her exbf a few months ago bc everyone knew but no one would help her
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So i met with her yesterday and she pretty much started talking about it before i could bring it up. So he is beating on her. There has also been some sexual abuse. I wont go into the details but it is pretty bad.

So thankfully she has already signed a lease for a new place for her and the baby. She has an exit plan! Her husband has no idea. She asked me if i could get my husband and my brother and dad to help her move her stuff out and take it to the new place.

I told my fam what was up and everyone is pissed that he has been treating her like that.
So me, my dad, brother and husband are going over there today to help her move.

I honestly dont know what his reaction is going to be. My dad and them are prepared either way. Hopefully there wont be any craziness.

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Oh my goodness that's so sad. Thank God she is wise enough and strong enough to get away from this coward!
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Thank goodness OP. It's a good thing you "didn't stay out of married folk's business" this time.

But just keep tabs on him especially, because some men just don't know how to let go. It's so crazy how far they are willing to not let go
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Geeeez

God bless u for helping her out Petite..., please make sure ppl from your fam stay with her or monitor him/her for the first few months because the woman leaving is usually the most dangerous time
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