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Originally posted by Ms.Best Ms.Best wrote:

Stay out of married folks business.

There's a distinct difference in being concerned & meddling in their business. Advice like this is why domestic violence is so high. Please be sure to check to see if she was trying to reach out for help.
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Everyone said what I wanted or needed to say so just keep us updated and help her out as much as you can and as much as she is willing to let you help her.. Hug
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I hope your friend gets the hel she needs
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (3) Thanks(3)   Quote Anah Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 07 2012 at 7:54pm
Originally posted by Qualified Qualified wrote:

In my family you have NO business. Let a relative/friend/family friend/ The Family Pet- scroll through my phone and see some ish like that, and you can believe they're setting it off ON THE SPOT, and if the answers arent convincing enough they cracking jaws and bussin nuts and (thats just the women)...

Then the men will come dragging in and all hell will break loose. For real, that may have been a low key cry for help. Im certain she knew those pictures were in there. Her insisting that you continue to scroll makes me feel as though she needed you to see that. She may be a little evasive at first, but I truly feel like it was cry for help.

CryLOL@ the bolded

Your fam is the bombClap
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Are y'all really good friends?
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Originally posted by Ms.Best Ms.Best wrote:

Stay out of married folks business.

seriously....y'all are worse than the illuminati.
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chile I read nothing but the first few lines

If he was my close relative ... I'm taking up the case

How would depend, but I'm opening up a case file on him and will get down to the bottom of it

If the pics weren't related to him, he wouldn't have gotten upset, he wouldn't have made them leave and he would've explained them to you

there's nothing for me to ask her


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I would've legit emailed myself the first pic and then worked on the rest


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stay out of it?

what happens when she's dead?

oh well?

no.
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I hope its not your relative. It IS possible its from her previous relationship. And her new hubby is upset if he thinks she's still viewing/holding on to the past. And maybe he was upset because he thought you thought he did it. Maybe he felt this was a private matter that had happened in the past and didn't want gossip to spread. Maybe he didn't want ppl to look down on/judde her from staying in her previous abusive relationship as long as she did.
 
*whispers* yeahhhh, I heard her last husband used to beat her..She musta been dumb to stay w/ a man like that..Couldn't have been me..I woulda left the 1st time.."
 
 
Just playing Devil's Advocate.
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