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Originally posted by iSMILE13 iSMILE13 wrote:

I would schedule lunch or something. Bring up the pics in a way without passing judgment. Get a feel of how receptive she is and go from there.
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Originally posted by Ms.Best Ms.Best wrote:

Stay out of married folks business.
once someone starts getting a beat down in a marriage, it is no longer just "married folk business" Sleepy
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Originally posted by petiteone29 petiteone29 wrote:

Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:


Originally posted by petiteone29 petiteone29 wrote:

Originally posted by HowardAlumAKA HowardAlumAKA wrote:

Why do you think it's him? Has she been with him for awhile?


at first i wasnt sure it was him because i heard her ex husband was abusive also. so i was thinking maybe it was him. but when her husband got mad from seeing the pics i felt certain it was him. i dont see any other reason why that would bother him



you don't see why he'd be mad that she kept pictures of her previous abuse on her phone? i most certainly can


can you explain?

no i dont understand. i would think he would be more sensitive and understanding not pissed off and ready to haul tail out of a family get together because she has evidence of abuse she has suffered on her phone.
this, plus even if it wasn't him...there's a reason she still has those pics on her phone.. she might still need someone to talk to 
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this is a tough one!i would say reach out to let her know that if she needs your support and wants to talk you are her for her
 
If she declines do not push the issue!
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ok so i called her. she was at at work. we are meeting up tomorrow to do some "christmas shopping" and grab lunch.

so ill bring it up to her and see what happens.
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Originally posted by petiteone29 petiteone29 wrote:

ok so i called her. she was at at work. we are meeting up tomorrow to do some "christmas shopping" and grab lunch.

so ill bring it up to her and see what happens.

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Originally posted by petiteone29 petiteone29 wrote:

ok so i called her. she was at at work. we are meeting up tomorrow to do some "christmas shopping" and grab lunch.

so ill bring it up to her and see what happens.
Thumbs Up HOpe it goes well and it was old pics from the ex.
 
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Keep us updated !!!!!!!!
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will do
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Good luck Petite!
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