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I agree, ask her out to lunch. Her phone calls and messages might be monitored. But I definitely think that you should ask her if everything is okay and let her know that you're there for her if she needs help.

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Originally posted by HowardAlumAKA HowardAlumAKA wrote:

Why do you think it's him? Has she been with him for awhile?


at first i wasnt sure it was him because i heard her ex husband was abusive also. so i was thinking maybe it was him. but when her husband got mad from seeing the pics i felt certain it was him. i dont see any other reason why that would bother him
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Originally posted by laceyfront laceyfront wrote:

She aint gone leave him so it doesnt really matter what you do anyways.


unfortunately this may be true. ive seen it before. but im still gonna talk to her.its her decision in the end.
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Originally posted by BeatriceBean BeatriceBean wrote:

I agree, ask her out to lunch. Her phone calls and messages might be monitored. But I definitely think that you should ask her if everything is okay and let her know that you're there for her if she needs help.

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Originally posted by petiteone29 petiteone29 wrote:

Originally posted by HowardAlumAKA HowardAlumAKA wrote:

Why do you think it's him? Has she been with him for awhile?


at first i wasnt sure it was him because i heard her ex husband was abusive also. so i was thinking maybe it was him. but when her husband got mad from seeing the pics i felt certain it was him. i dont see any other reason why that would bother him


you don't see why he'd be mad that she kept pictures of her previous abuse on her phone? i most certainly can
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Wow, this is messy. She seems to have a history of falling into abusive relationships. Like most said in this thread, let her know discreelty that you are here for you if she needs anything at all. If she's ready to make a move, that might embolden her to reach out
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jewels, that man keeps licking his lips at the other man....what is that about?
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Originally posted by Elohim_is_Love Elohim_is_Love wrote:

So no one listen to my post? Knock him out or get some men and jump and beat him like he beats her. I want to see Oliver smackdown on that bully azz mean azz negroe!!!


i hear you el. i dont know whats going to happen if and when her family or the rest of my family finds out. but a beatdown may or may not take place.
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im sure she knows u say the pics.
i would reach out. let her know she doesnt have to talk now but im here whenever she gets ready
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Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:


Originally posted by petiteone29 petiteone29 wrote:

Originally posted by HowardAlumAKA HowardAlumAKA wrote:

Why do you think it's him? Has she been with him for awhile?


at first i wasnt sure it was him because i heard her ex husband was abusive also. so i was thinking maybe it was him. but when her husband got mad from seeing the pics i felt certain it was him. i dont see any other reason why that would bother him



you don't see why he'd be mad that she kept pictures of her previous abuse on her phone? i most certainly can


can you explain?

no i dont understand. i would think he would be more sensitive and understanding not pissed off and ready to haul tail out of a family get together because she has evidence of abuse she has suffered on her phone.
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