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Make sure she has security at her new place

Refer to that bhm weapon thread
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Good heavens! plus sexual abuse?!! Angry....thankfully she has your family's support Clap 
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Originally posted by petiteone29 petiteone29 wrote:

So i met with her yesterday and she pretty much started talking about it before i could bring it up. So he is beating on her. There has also been some sexual abuse. I wont go into the details but it is pretty bad.

So thankfully she has already signed a lease for a new place for her and the baby. She has an exit plan! Her husband has no idea. She asked me if i could get my husband and my brother and dad to help her move her stuff out and take it to the new place.

I told my fam what was up and everyone is pissed that he has been treating her like that.
So me, my dad, brother and husband are going over there today to help her move.

I honestly dont know what his reaction is going to be. My dad and them are prepared either way. Hopefully there wont be any craziness.

 
 
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Originally posted by mrshairdo mrshairdo wrote:

Geeeez

God bless u for helping her out Petite..., please make sure ppl from your fam stay with her or monitor him/her for the first few months because the woman leaving is usually the most dangerous time
 
 
this is what i'm worried about.
 
 
has anyone beaten spoken with the male family member? or do they have any plans to?
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She was crying out for help and wanted you to see those pics. She knew she had those pics in her phone and thats why she handed the phone to you for you to scroll through instead of just showing you herself like people do when they have private pics they dont want nobody to see on their phone.
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Originally posted by tropical-punch tropical-punch wrote:

I'm trying to resist the urge to say summa y'all ain't sh*t.

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so glad that she has her exit plan in place. i hope he does act up when y'all go over there so husband, dad and brother can beat him down. asshole!
since they have a child, things may get difficult. please tell her to seek full custody with supervised visitation for him. i wonder if she had documented any of the abuse or filed any reports.
 
nevertheless, so glad you were there to hear her cry for help. 
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good thing for following your instinct OP. 
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I'm so glad you reached out to her!!
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The best time to move is when he is not there. If he is, you best believe its going to be some sh*t!! She doesn't need that! He probably will not be letting none of you out of the house with her stuff, but good luck!!!!
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