Umm I think everyone takes a 'chance' when they fall in love and get married.
If you meet the perfect guy, date for 3 years, have pre-marriiage counselling, have financial counseling etc and then get married ... it's still taking a 'chance' because ... unexpected things happen. To me this would be taking a chance based on reasonable circumstances - meaning there are no obvious red flags. That's the one thing.
But in Sherri's case she got divorced in 2009 and bragged about being celibate and talking about getting a man ... and puff in 2011 she got married.
Umm but how is it that in the year they dated (2010) she did not realize he made 30k and that at some point he was out of work and was lying?
Seems like just normal dinners out, seeing his house etc .. she would have realized that the dude was struggling. I've dated guys that could not afford to take me out to The Olive Garden .. so then I knew right there what was going on.
Now I read about the 3 carat diamond ring? Who paid for that ring?
I'll bet SHE paid for it and the wedding and every darn thing else in that relationship. She was carrying him... and blind to his failings.
So to me... she was doing more than taking a chance on love - she just wanted to GET MARRIED and when women send out that vibe .. they attract the creeps in the world.
(her little boy is cute .. but her men are ugly.)
Edited by Printer_Ink - May 18 2014 at 1:58pm