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maysay1 wrote:

She's losing on so many levels.

This is what being desperate gets you in life. I'll never understand why orgasms are so important that they cause you to jeopardize your mental/emotional health.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
LOL!!  Gurl shid.  That man ain't make Sherry nut.

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I can't imagine what it must be like going through something like this while the eyes of the world are transfixed on you. True, she did kind of set herself up by telling the world how eager (even desperate) she was to marry and all but damn... Divorce is such a traumatic thing to go through. If I had the whole world criticizing my decisions and judgement while I was going through it on top of my own personal pain, I'd be in a freakin' straight jacket. Black women are so harsh with other black women. It's normal to search for love in life. It's also part of life to falter. I would be more harsh with her if she hadn't protected herself with a prenup. But she did. She did protect herself to some extent and took a chance on love and it failed. I truly feel bad for her.

He don't look like he can put anything down in the bedroom except a rosbeef sammich though

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Originally posted by JoliePoufiasse JoliePoufiasse wrote:

I can't imagine what it must be like going through something like this while the eyes of the world are transfixed on you. True, she did kind of set herself up by telling the world how eager (even desperate) she was to marry and all but damn... Divorce is such a traumatic thing to go through. If I had the whole world criticizing my decisions and judgement while I was going through it on top of my own personal pain, I'd be in a freakin' straight jacket. Black women are so harsh with other black women. It's normal to search for love in life. It's also part of life to falter. I would be more harsh with her if she hadn't protected herself with a prenup. But she did. She did protect herself to some extent and took a chance on love and it failed. I truly feel bad for her.

He don't look like he can put anything down in the bedroom except a rosbeef sammich though

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'I still love her': Sherri Shepherd's ex Lamar Sally denies that he 'asked for prenup promising she would not get fat'

By Sam Ronan

Published: 17:31 GMT, 17 May 2014 | Updated: 18:57 GMT, 17 May 2014


Sherri Shepherd's estranged husband Lamar Sally has denied a TMZ report that he asked his wife to sign a prenup, promising not to put on weight.

'I did not want her to sign an amendment to our prenup,' he tells the site.

He added: 'We had a lot of love in our marriage. I still love her. To no one's fault, at some point, we started to view marriage differently.'

In happier times: Sherri Shepherd, with her estranged husband Lamar Sally, who TMZ claimed asked his wife to sign a prenup agreeing she would not get fat during their marriage
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In happier times: Sherri Shepherd, with her estranged husband Lamar Sally, who TMZ claimed asked his wife to sign a prenup agreeing she would 'not get fat' during their marriage

Sherri is currently embroiled in a custody battle with her first husband Jeff Tarpley, and filed for divorce from her current husband last week.

TMZ initially reported that her second husband Lamar wanted her to sign a document promising 'she would not get fat, and enjoy lovemaking'.

The site had claimed among other stipulations, Lamar requested that Sherri sign an agreement saying: 'I enjoy having sex with my husband. I crave intimacy with him and want to be uninhibited and free in our lovemaking.'

Adding: 'MY BODY IS IMPORTANT TO ME. I STRIVE TO MAINTAIN A HEALTHY BODY WEIGHT AND EXERCISE AT LEAST THREE TIMES A WEEK.'

They are currently fighting over custody of their unborn child via surrogate.

The news follows a report that the 47-year-old is neglecting their nine-year-old special needs son, according to ex husband Jeff Tarpley.

Not gonna happen: Sherri - pictured here earlier this month in New York - is said to have refused her husband Lamars request to sign a prenup stating she would not put on weight during their marriage
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Not gonna happen: Sherri - pictured here earlier this month in New York - is said to have refused her husband Lamar's request to sign a prenup stating she would not put on weight during their marriage

Custody battle: Sherri Shepherd is locked in a battle over her son Jeffrey Jr., pictured in New York in 2011
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Custody battle: Sherri Shepherd is locked in a battle over her son Jeffrey Jr., pictured in New York in 2011

TMZ reports that Tarpley is claiming that their son Jeffrey Jr. is nearly illiterate and does not know how to even tie his shoelaces.

Tarpley, a comedian, says Sherri is a neglectful mother who is too busy tending to her successful television career to properly look after their son.

The funnyman is pushing for full physical custody of Jeffrey Jr. as he believes the boy is being raised mostly by 'unskilled nannies'.

Not so happy now: Jeffrey Tarpley was married to Sherri from 2001 to 2010, pictured in Los Angeles in 2005
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Not so happy now: Jeffrey Tarpley was married to Sherri from 2001 to 2010, pictured in Los Angeles in 2005

In addition, Tarpley lives in California while his ex and son live in New Jersey - he wants the boy to move across the country to be with him full time.

But Sherri has hit back in her own court filings, claiming that Tarpley is an absentee father and does not deserve to have a role in her son's life.

The presiding judge has set an official hearing for July to settle the dispute.

Tarpley's filing precedes the current custody case between Lamar and Sherri.

Sherri and Lamar are expecting a baby by surrogate on July 28.

Shepherd, had not mentioned custody arrangements in her divorce documents earlier this month, but according to TMZ, does ask the court to 'enforce their prenuptial agreement' which she believes would give her the right to full physical custody of the new child.

Irreconcilable differences: Sherri and Lamar Sally - who wed in 2011 following a year-long courtship - are expecting a baby by surrogate in July and the TV writer is demanding full custody (pictured here 2011)
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'Irreconcilable differences': Sherri and Lamar Sally - who wed in 2011 following a year-long courtship - are expecting a baby by surrogate in July and the TV writer is demanding full custody (pictured here 2011)

The website reports that under terms of the prenup, Lamar 'agrees that the new child will live with Sherri and her son Jeffrey from a previous relationship.'

This means Shepherd would get 'full physical custody of the new baby,' despite Sally's request to only allow basic visitation rights to the talk show host.

But Sally wants the legal document 'invalidated on grounds of fraud' and he's enlisted attorney Mark Vincent Kaplan, who represented Kevin Federline during the Britney Spears divorce. If the prenup is invalidated, he will then be able to fight for full custody.

Officially separated: Sherri Shepherd finally removed her 3-carat princess-cut diamond ring while appearing on Wednesdays episode of The View, but she made no mention of her impending divorce
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Officially separated: Sherri finally removed her 3-carat princess-cut diamond ring while appearing on Wednesday's episode of The View, but she made no mention of her impending divorce

TMZ suggests Sally may want the prenup invalidated for other reasons. It stipulates he will only receive a lump sum of $60,000 if the marriage lasts two to five years - the couple wed in 2011.

And in contrast to Sally's $30,000 earnings, Shepherd apparently made a whopping $1 million back in 2010. An invalidated prenuptial agreement could mean he's entitled to spousal support.

On Wednesday's episode of The View, Shepherd finally removed her 3-carat princess-cut diamond ring, but made no mention of the split.

The former stand-up comic has a nine-year-old son Jeffrey with ex-husband comedian Jeff Tarpley, whom she divorced in 2009 after he got his mistress pregnant.

Sherri - who also recently dropped 60 pounds - is a devout Christian who doesn't believe in evolution.

Later this year, Shepherd will appear in Chris Rock's reality TV-inspired comedy Finally Famous alongside Rosario Dawson, Kevin Hart, and Gabrielle Union.

Love of her life: The former stand-up comic has a nine-year-old son Jeffrey with her first husband comedian Jeff Tarpley
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Love of her life: The former stand-up comic has a nine-year-old son Jeffrey with her first husband


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Originally posted by JoliePoufiasse JoliePoufiasse wrote:

I can't imagine what it must be like going through something like this while the eyes of the world are transfixed on you. True, she did kind of set herself up by telling the world how eager (even desperate) she was to marry and all but damn... Divorce is such a traumatic thing to go through. If I had the whole world criticizing my decisions and judgement while I was going through it on top of my own personal pain, I'd be in a freakin' straight jacket. Black women are so harsh with other black women. It's normal to search for love in life. It's also part of life to falter. I would be more harsh with her if she hadn't protected herself with a prenup. But she did. She did protect herself to some extent and took a chance on love and it failed. I truly feel bad for her.

He don't look like he can put anything down in the bedroom except a rosbeef sammich though


Took a chance on love? I guess that's what we're calling stupidity now.

She got divorced in 2009. Barely took time to deal with that and moving to the east coast for the view and getting her special needs son settled into a good life. Then dated new dude for ONLY A YEAR before getting married in 2011.

People tried to tell her she was being dumb but she didn't want to listen. As a black woman the last thing I'm trying to do is support people's dysfunctional decision making, especially when there's a child involved. I guess that's too "harsh".
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I think she rushed the marriage because she was being celibate
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Originally posted by hauteshellbi hauteshellbi wrote:

I think she rushed the marriage because she was being celibate


I had the same thought
(but didn't dare post it LOLLOL)
eta: I don't really think a year is rushed, but I think she may have ignored some warning signs because the celibacy thing messed with her decision making skills. 


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@what she finds attractive
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Umm I think everyone takes a 'chance' when they fall in love and get married.

If you meet the perfect guy, date for 3 years, have pre-marriiage counselling, have financial counseling etc and then get married ... it's still taking a 'chance' because ... unexpected things happen. To me this would be taking a chance based on reasonable circumstances - meaning there are no obvious red flags. That's the one thing.

But in Sherri's case she got divorced in 2009 and bragged about being celibate and talking about getting a man ... and puff in 2011 she got married.

Umm but how is it that in the year they dated (2010) she did not realize he made 30k and that at some point he was out of work and was lying?

Seems like just normal dinners out, seeing his house etc .. she would have realized that the dude was struggling. I've dated guys that could not afford to take me out to The Olive Garden .. so then I knew right there what was going on.

Now I read about the 3 carat diamond ring? Who paid for that ring?

I'll bet SHE paid for it and the wedding and every darn thing else in that relationship. She was carrying him... and blind to his failings.

So to me... she was doing more than taking a chance on love - she just wanted to GET MARRIED and when women send out that vibe .. they attract the creeps in the world.

(her little boy is cute .. but her men are ugly.)

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