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Originally posted by JoliePoufiasse JoliePoufiasse wrote:

I can't imagine what it must be like going through something like this while the eyes of the world are transfixed on you. True, she did kind of set herself up by telling the world how eager (even desperate) she was to marry and all but damn... Divorce is such a traumatic thing to go through. If I had the whole world criticizing my decisions and judgement while I was going through it on top of my own personal pain, I'd be in a freakin' straight jacket. Black women are so harsh with other black women. It's normal to search for love in life. It's also part of life to falter. I would be more harsh with her if she hadn't protected herself with a prenup. But she did. She did protect herself to some extent and took a chance on love and it failed. I truly feel bad for her.

He don't look like he can put anything down in the bedroom except a rosbeef sammich though


Took a chance on love? I guess that's what we're calling stupidity now.

She got divorced in 2009. Barely took time to deal with that and moving to the east coast for the view and getting her special needs son settled into a good life. Then dated new dude for ONLY A YEAR before getting married in 2011.

People tried to tell her she was being dumb but she didn't want to listen. As a black woman the last thing I'm trying to do is support people's dysfunctional decision making, especially when there's a child involved. I guess that's too "harsh".
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I think she rushed the marriage because she was being celibate
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Originally posted by hauteshellbi hauteshellbi wrote:

I think she rushed the marriage because she was being celibate


I had the same thought
(but didn't dare post it LOLLOL)
eta: I don't really think a year is rushed, but I think she may have ignored some warning signs because the celibacy thing messed with her decision making skills. 


Edited by PurplePhase - May 18 2014 at 2:21pm
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@what she finds attractive
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Umm I think everyone takes a 'chance' when they fall in love and get married.

If you meet the perfect guy, date for 3 years, have pre-marriiage counselling, have financial counseling etc and then get married ... it's still taking a 'chance' because ... unexpected things happen. To me this would be taking a chance based on reasonable circumstances - meaning there are no obvious red flags. That's the one thing.

But in Sherri's case she got divorced in 2009 and bragged about being celibate and talking about getting a man ... and puff in 2011 she got married.

Umm but how is it that in the year they dated (2010) she did not realize he made 30k and that at some point he was out of work and was lying?

Seems like just normal dinners out, seeing his house etc .. she would have realized that the dude was struggling. I've dated guys that could not afford to take me out to The Olive Garden .. so then I knew right there what was going on.

Now I read about the 3 carat diamond ring? Who paid for that ring?

I'll bet SHE paid for it and the wedding and every darn thing else in that relationship. She was carrying him... and blind to his failings.

So to me... she was doing more than taking a chance on love - she just wanted to GET MARRIED and when women send out that vibe .. they attract the creeps in the world.

(her little boy is cute .. but her men are ugly.)

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Printer, Sherri said on the show that he sold fried turkeys to buy her ring.
(I don't think I woulda told that LOL)
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Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

Originally posted by hauteshellbi hauteshellbi wrote:

I think she rushed the marriage because she was being celibate


I had the same thought
(but didn't dare post it LOLLOL)
eta: I don't really think a year is rushed, but I think she may have ignored some warning signs because the celibacy thing messed with her decision making skills. 


Yup she can wait to have sex but waiting alllll the way to marriage idk man I couldn't do it
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The former stand-up comic has a nine-year-old son Jeffrey with ex-husband comedian Jeff Tarpley, whom she divorced in 2009 after he got his mistress pregnant.

Thats a good reason to divorce a guy!LOL

Seriously I read Sherri's wiki write up and was amazed all the past acting/gigs she's had.  She's a millionaire yet dated a guy who only made 30k/year?  Come on gurl, you knew that was such an uneven match up financially there was bound to be marital issues...

I think she leaked that lame amendment to show his lack of character (and her lack of good judgement,, too.)
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Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

Originally posted by hauteshellbi hauteshellbi wrote:

I think she rushed the marriage because she was being celibate


I had the same thought
(but didn't dare post it LOLLOL)
eta: I don't really think a year is rushed, but I think she may have ignored some warning signs because the celibacy thing messed with her decision making skills. 


A year is definitely rushing when you have a child.


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Ok so she knew he wasn't an earner before they married and he's saying he still loves her

What's the problem, what "hapint"?


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