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    Posted: Mar 06 2014 at 7:22pm
I will try to make this as concise as possible. A little background on her and I. I'm a very outspoken individual, I can be quite foul sometimes(but I'm working on thatEmbarrassed) Anywho I have been relatively "nice" with her, let's call her Sandy, (no relation to Mizzsandr00). Anywho, are views differ in many ways but I still try to work with her. She says things like, "If black people want white people to stop being racist, we should be more open with them"Sleepy. I usually give her the side eye because of her ignorance. Okay the other day she texts me asking how I was and yadda yadda yadda.
 But my spidey senses were tingling for some weird reason, and here it comes. She asks me if I have been speaking to her ex:Kay. Me: Who is Kay?. As soon as I texted her that I realized who she was talking about. Then she said, "remember yall exchanged numbers when he came and picked me up. Me: Oh, your ex Keyonte, why what he ask about me, did he say how is your friend doing?. (I said this just to see what she was leading up with). She said, "no he said that one of my friends texted him that, she doesn't like him and has been texting him; and sending him pictures with sexual content in it, and that this friend had sexual encounters with a lot of men.

Me:Ouch I was thinking in my head, why the hell is she asking me this bullish, I don't have friends who ask me stupid azz questions like this. So I got irradiated as hell. And answered why, it is true isn't, you don't like him.

Her: Just answer the question yes or no.
Her: you're the only one who has his number

Me: I answered, "I would never ask this question to anyone I considered a true friend, this really make me think. And NO I have never spoke to him from that day, not interested in him either".

Her: Why are you getting all defensive, yaddda yadddaa

Me: ( I really tried to be at least a good acquaintance with her, because were in the same field and other stuff. But I'm not used to insecure ish like this). She said she doesn't care about him and she isn't worried about females yadda yadda, and how secure she is. I call bullish, because she has done some real desperate stuff in the past. 

But I don't think I overreacted at all, I didn't curse her out or anything. She said she had to ask because she didn't want to remain suspicious. The hell she got to suspicious for, her ex isn't cute at all and she clowns the shat out of him and says he got a small penis. 






Ugh this sounds like some basic bish problems. LOL
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She insecure as and that question is disrespectful as hell....bish if you didn't you wouldn't ask....
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Disrespectful...
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She tried it and was brave about it LOL.

She said, "no he said that one of my friends texted him that, she doesn't like him and has been texting him; and sending him pictures with sexual content in it, and that this friend had sexual encounters with a lot of men.

So your the woman that she thinks he is referring to out of all the friends because you fit the description that didn't piss you off???
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Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

She insecure as and that question is disrespectful as hell....bish if you didn't you wouldn't ask....

Thank you, I'm trying this new thing called being "nice". But nah you aren't going to make me feel like I'm in the wrong. I'm not used to this type of ish at all, never in my life. She kept saying, "I'm secure, I'm secure". I said I'm happy for you, but I never said anything about you not being secure. I just can't, I will probably cut her off real soon. I already don't hang out with her, I feel she might act out in public. We have a mutual friend so that is why we started talking.
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Plus she let dude send her dumb ass off...he told her that but didn't tell her who....and she real thinks she knows if your number is the only number he has......chile that some high school bullshyt.....
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Originally posted by thewonderfulwa thewonderfulwa wrote:

She tried it and was brave about it LOL.

She said, "no he said that one of my friends texted him that, she doesn't like him and has been texting him; and sending him pictures with sexual content in it, and that this friend had sexual encounters with a lot of men.

So your the woman that she thinks he is referring to out of all the friends because you fit the description that didn't piss you off???

Man, when I read what she forwarded to me, I was in disbelief, believe me. I she said it's just a question.
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She called you a ho f8. Overreacting would have been beating that bish with a bottle, word to Da Brat.
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If y'all speak again, you should bring up keyonte without being prompted. That will mess with her mind. Let her disrespectful behind stew in her insecurity.LOL



I had something similar happen where a friend/now acquaintance tried it. She was engaging in trifling behavior with a trifling man and tried to get every damn one involved in her messiness. Soon after it all crashed down on her and she is back to making sense.Dead
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Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Plus she let dude send her dumb ass off...he told her that but didn't tell her who....and she real thinks she knows if your number is the only number he has......chile that some high school bullshyt.....


exactly he knew what he was doing
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