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I would help a friend/relative who was in dire straits but not someone who has a way out their debt. No ma'am
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Wow...what kinda friend is this?

To be honest, if my best friend only needed $300-400 to get her car fixed, I would give it to her even if I only had $4000. I have the kinda best friend who would wait for me to OFFER it tho, and not just expect it like she's entitled to it.

Her acting like I owed it to her would rub me the wrong way tho, and I'd have to tell her no.

In this case I would tell her, "If your bills aren't important enough TO YOU to pass up on All-Star weekend, why should they be so important to me that I give up MY money?"

My bestie would never try me like that tho.

But then again, I wouldn't even tell anyone I won the lotto, gambling, etc.
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I think this situation is messed up.
If my bff was having financial problems, I would GIVE her some money to help out
If this was just based on her student loans
My reaction ---->
I won, not my bff. I wouldn't rub it in her face either though.
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Originally posted by ShadyLady ShadyLady wrote:

Wow...what kinda friend is this?

To be honest, if my best friend only needed $300-400 to get her car fixed, I would give it to her even if I only had $4000. I have the kinda best friend who would wait for me to OFFER it tho, and not just expect it like she's entitled to it.

Her acting like I owed it to her would rub me the wrong way tho, and I'd have to tell her no.

In this case I would tell her, "If your bills aren't important enough TO YOU to pass up on All-Star weekend, why should they be so important to me that I give up MY money?"


My bestie would never try me like that tho.

But then again, I wouldn't even tell anyone I won the lotto, gambling, etc.


exactly.

if she was serious about paying bills, then she should re-examine her priorities. right now, going out and having fun seems like it is more important than getting her car fixed.
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i agree...i think all star is a waste of money no matter what the situation is.

they planned their all star thing together b/c neither one can go anywhere without the other.  if she cancels all star due to money issues then my cousin will be mad at her...they're both backwards sometimes.
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Originally posted by Bunnyahh Bunnyahh wrote:

DO you mind if I thread jack for a bit?  I know a grown woman that lost her job, her dh lost his too.  They had 2 kids under 4 & 2 in their teens.  She didn't have a way to pay for everything & fell way behind in her rent.  She started asking ppl for money.  Do you think that was the right thing to do since she cant pay it back?  I think she should just move back home & stop borrowing from peter to pay paul

where is her 6-9month emergency fund? where is her mad money?what is her plan for next month's rent? they havent downgraded their lifestyle (moving back home, beans-n-rice diet etc)? with 4 kids to feed, she better call mcdonalds, dominoes, papa johns, sell stuff on ebay/craigslist etc
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Ha....I wish she would feel entitled to my money cuz she wouldn't get one cent with that attitude.
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