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Originally posted by bg bg wrote:

i think its rude to ask though


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It's rude of her to ask. 
I'd never ask my friend for money, especially from four thousand. WTF. Rent alone is $1100

If I won the lottery I'd give my friends according to how much I won. 

In the situation in the OP, I'd break down how the money is already spent before I even touch it. 

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Impossible to remain friends when the girl can't even be happy for me.

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Plus, your cousin may have won something but she still has to pay state/federal taxes.
Will the b!tch help her pay it after getting her part? I don't think so.
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Originally posted by sexyandfamous sexyandfamous wrote:

Plus, your cousin may have won something but she still has to pay state/federal taxes.
Will the b!tch help her pay it after getting her part? I don't think so.

she won it through illegal gambling, she ain't payin taxes on that shyt. LOL


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i would not even tell my friends (and a lot of my family) if I won the lottery for 4k or 4M. people feel entitled to your money for no reason.

I probably would have gave her something before she asked though.

if I really won (i mean multimillions), I would just have my lawyer deposit it in people's accounts so they didn't know it was me.
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Now you can't even buy her a little something cause she probably gone turn her nose up since she was expecting a cut of the cash.
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Originally posted by Ladybird0724 Ladybird0724 wrote:

i would not even tell my friends (and a lot of my family) if I won the lottery for 4k or 4M. people feel entitled to your money for no reason.

I probably would have gave her something before she asked though.

if I really won (i mean multimillions), I would just have my lawyer deposit it in people's accounts so they didn't know it was me.

Basically. IMO if I won a lump sum of money the only person that would be entitled to ANY of my money would be my damn mama. People think because they got some type of title in your life that means they automatically earned what you got. Thats why most people wouldn't even know I won a large amount of money because if they did they'd come up with all kinds of outrageous reasons for why they think they deserve a piece of it.
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I would help a friend/relative who was in dire straits but not someone who has a way out their debt. No ma'am
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Wow...what kinda friend is this?

To be honest, if my best friend only needed $300-400 to get her car fixed, I would give it to her even if I only had $4000. I have the kinda best friend who would wait for me to OFFER it tho, and not just expect it like she's entitled to it.

Her acting like I owed it to her would rub me the wrong way tho, and I'd have to tell her no.

In this case I would tell her, "If your bills aren't important enough TO YOU to pass up on All-Star weekend, why should they be so important to me that I give up MY money?"

My bestie would never try me like that tho.

But then again, I wouldn't even tell anyone I won the lotto, gambling, etc.
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