sharing your "good fortune" with friends?

Let's say you and your bff are in similar financial situations.  you both have a decent amt of debt from school or cc or whatever but not under water.  you discuss finances with each other so you're both familiar with each others situation.  you win 4k and you're happy to put that towards your debt and enjoy a little on yourself.  your bff insinuates that you should be giving some of it to her since you understand where she's at financially and you're basically two peas in a pod.  now you feel bad but you still don't want to help her pay off her debt.  how would you go about telling her that you're not interested in sharing your little win fall while maintaining the closeness of your friendship?

If  one of my friends need some financial help, I will do it in a heartbeat. We have done this for each other in the past. But I/them wouldn't expect it.

Edited by freedom76 - Jan 11 2013 at 4:11pm

no real friend would as that of you and even if they lost their mind for 30 seconds they would understand no.

Good for your cousin but I don't think that can happen. That money money won't last her forever. Her friend really shouldn't have put her in such an awkward position. 

i think its rude to ask though