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Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Originally posted by miana79 miana79 wrote:

Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

i'm really fond of the idea of living with someone but having my own bedroom.  is that weird?  
 
VERY WEIRD!
 
so when u have sex, u gonna just send the person to their room after??? will the persom be allowed to have stuff in ur room???? this is sooo funny!

lol i really didn't say that to be funny b/c i am serious.  i think it's the best of both worlds.  doesn't everyone want to be alone sometimes?  he can have some things in my room and vice versa...sometimes he can sleep over in my room, sometimes i'll sleep over in his room.  it may be because my sleeping patterns change a lot and i want the freedom to chill in bed and listen to music or watch tv or whatever, whenever i want without upsetting his sleep.  it might make sex and stuff more exciting too. Embarrassed

That actually doesn't sound like a bad idea if one's head is in the right place and they won't cheat. I'd think most dudes would see that as them being given freedom to cheat and bring girls in and out of the apartment.
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I'm shackin'. I like it.


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We have our own separate rooms too lol. She sleeps with me in my bed most nights though. 
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Originally posted by Random Thoughts Random Thoughts wrote:

We have our own separate rooms too lol. She sleeps with me in my bed most nights though. 

ClapClap  this is all giving me hope.  

@niecy...that's the problem with these youngstas.  why can't things be easy like the movies?
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I know a hetero couple that have lived together for 22 years.

I judge them, even though i know i shouldnt.

^this, I know it works for some but it's not for me. I know folks who have been together for over 20 years, with teenage children and paying a mortgage. If ya can sign that deed you can sign a marriage certificate cuz they are both long term commitments.
 
But, why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free?
 
That's what these chicks aren't getting:  if you are looking for comittment, you're going about it all wrong.  These guys already feel ya'll are living the married life, so what's the big deal about getting a marriage certificate?
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Wonderland I just may have to bring up the possibility of doing that with my SO
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Originally posted by niecy niecy wrote:

Wonderland I just may have to bring up the possibility of doing that with my SO

what do you think he will say?  
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Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

i'm really fond of the idea of living with someone but having my own bedroom.  is that weird?  


Lol u are not weird and I love this
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Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Originally posted by niecy niecy wrote:

Wonderland I just may have to bring up the possibility of doing that with my SO

what do you think he will say?  

IDK. He'd probably go along with it since he kept bringing up finding an apartment instead of me staying on campus.
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Originally posted by CLCNY20 CLCNY20 wrote:

Originally posted by Prtybrwneye_z Prtybrwneye_z wrote:

Originally posted by dreamz dreamz wrote:

I know a hetero couple that have lived together for 22 years.

I judge them, even though i know i shouldnt.

^this, I know it works for some but it's not for me. I know folks who have been together for over 20 years, with teenage children and paying a mortgage. If ya can sign that deed you can sign a marriage certificate cuz they are both long term commitments.
 
But, why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free?
 
That's what these chicks aren't getting:  if you are looking for comitment, you're going about it all wrong.  These guys already feel ya'll are living the married life, so what's the big deal about getting a marriage certificate?


I look at it the totally opposite way. If all the other stuff is together (financial, legal) then there's actually no need for a marriage certificate unless you just want one. A marriage certificate is just a legal shortcut...but you don't need it in order to receive many of the legal benefits that go along with it if you make other arrangements(of course that doesn't apply to every situation).

And getting married isn't enough to show that someone is committed, at least in my eyes. It shows commitment, yes, but so does combining finances, getting a mortgage together, naming your SO in your will, giving your SO medical/legal power of attorney, having shared goals, etc. etc. You don't need a marriage certificate for all that.

Shackin is fine and dandy to me. Not shackin is fine and dandy too. As long as you're in the situation you want.
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