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Findingmyme 
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 Posted: Feb 01 2013 at 1:30pm |
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I've done it, ended in disaster, but that was because we were way to young and immature, I think if you are mature, and love each other, go for it! I even encourage living with your future spouse prior to marriage because the saying, "you never really know a person until you live with them" have proved itself to be true! At least for me.
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NARSAddict
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Posted: Feb 01 2013 at 1:36pm |
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What are you alls thoughts on playing house with folks you not married to? |
I wouldn't go along with it to be honest.
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EPITOME
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Posted: Feb 01 2013 at 1:40pm |
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Damnit I want to so bad. But my whole entire family and his would skin my hide.
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my mom refused to drop me off at home once mind you we had just come from wedding dress shopping  silly nig.ga
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Posted: Feb 01 2013 at 2:07pm |
Findingmyme wrote:
I've done it, ended in disaster, but that was because we were way to young and immature, I think if you are mature, and love each other, go for it! I even encourage living with your future spouse prior to marriage because the saying, "you never really know a person until you live with them" have proved itself to be true! At least for me. |
No the saying goes why buy the milk when you have the cow!!! Dis-approve. Seen too many fails.
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miana79
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Posted: Feb 01 2013 at 3:31pm |
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I rhink it should be done beofor emarriage to see what it is like living with the other person.. However I think time restraints should be in place so that it does not go on forever..The ultimake goal should be marriage after doing this and then kids.
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Posted: Feb 01 2013 at 3:40pm |
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If we are engaged and about to be married, why not?
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Posted: Feb 01 2013 at 3:53pm |
EPITOME wrote:
jonesable wrote:
Damnit I want to so bad. But my whole entire family and his would skin my hide.
So no thanks. I can wait until I'm married. |
my mom refused to drop me off at home once
mind you we had just come from wedding dress shopping silly nig.ga |
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Posted: Feb 01 2013 at 4:31pm |
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I know a hetero couple that have lived together for 22 years.
I judge them, even though i know i shouldnt.
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Miss SDY
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Posted: Feb 01 2013 at 5:10pm |
My parents strongly disapproved of me or my siblings shacking up.
I do not have a problem with it myself but it would have to be with the plan to get married in the near future.
I know two couples in which the ladies are very near and dear to my heart. I consider them my sisters, even though one is an actual relative. One is pregnant and the other one just had her baby a week ago yesterday. They live with the fathers of their babies. The one that just had her baby has been with the father for almost 9 years and have lived together for 4 years. The other one that is currently pregnant has been with the father for 7 years and they have lived together 3 years. As much as I listen to them talk about wanting and ready to be married, I do not understand why neither of them have approached the subject with them..
Me personally, from the point where I move in, I need an engagement ring on my hand and a date set in stone. I am not exceeding 1.5 years from that point co-habitating with a man without a name change and a wedding band in addition to my engagement ring. I am just not going to do it. Period. The only way is if something unexpected happens because we all know life throws us punches.
Anything past that point, I may have to re-evaluate the relationship/engagement.. People get comfortable sometimes and do not have the desire or the want to go through with it when they live together.. When I make that move to unite under one roof, I am doing it with the sole intent to get married, not co-habitate for 10 years...
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