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Originally posted by kfoxx1998 kfoxx1998 wrote:

That's sucks LH.  He was afraid of hurting the baby.  You only have a few weeks left.  Did making the thread help?  I know once I talked about it and resolved that it was going to be a few more weeks I felt a lot better.

YES he thought he would be putting his peen near the baby... I tried showing him research and having the doc explain things to him but he couldnt wrap his head around it lol 
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Originally posted by LovesHim LovesHim wrote:

Originally posted by kfoxx1998 kfoxx1998 wrote:

That's sucks LH.  He was afraid of hurting the baby.  You only have a few weeks left.  Did making the thread help?  I know once I talked about it and resolved that it was going to be a few more weeks I felt a lot better.

YES he thought he would be putting his peen near the baby... I tried showing him research and having the doc explain things to him but he couldnt wrap his head around it lol 

Po thang thinks they make penises that big.....LOLLOLLOLLOLLOLLOLLOLCryCryCryLOLLOLLOLLOL
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Lonisha did you contact your Ob/GYN on this matter? u should....sorry to read ur situation...
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lol...yep, you have to be very careful,you will get preg right away again
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Originally posted by iluvmihair iluvmihair wrote:

I apologize, but I would like some clarification on the pain. Is it like, you have become too tight, or it's like your vajay still somewhat hurts from giving birth? None of the above? Mixture? 

I really like this thread btw. I tried to have this convo with my mom and she was very obscure. She said we would talk about it more when it came closer to time (I'm not dating anyone serious, so marriage and kids is looking a far off at this point lol).


Its tightness, the pain from giving birth seems to.be gone, but if he moves a certain.way, the area where i tore hurts. But OB says im.completely healed
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Originally posted by Fraiche2Death Fraiche2Death wrote:

My muscles were tight and right. I was so effin horny I f*cked around and got preggers again. 5/6 weeks out the box. I miscarried some time later but maaaan be careful. LOL


Lemme research some birth control options
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This is why I want a childless marriage. If she want kids that's on her.
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Lonisha, please think about getting a 2nd opinion from another doctor. Sex shouldn't hurt (unless you want it to). if something doesn't feel right, then chances are it isn't. 

For me, it was worse than losing my virginity. not only was i so nervous, but it was painful bc i was so tight, from being stitched up really well (I only tore a tiny bit) and also doing keels like crazy bc i was scared of a "hotdog down a hallway" situation. and i was really dry….i stayed dry for a long time. I had to depend on lube until recently. 

we didn't really get going until baby started sleeping thru the night, so we moved him to his own room. 
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I'm probably having a c section but I think they still want me to wait I'm guessing from the internal healing? I dunno, I'm scared. .
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Originally posted by melikey melikey wrote:

I'm probably having a c section but I think they still want me to wait I'm guessing from the internal healing? I dunno, I'm scared. .

HugHugHug

Don't worry!!!  We do this everyday like bosses! 

Yes you have to wait for your staples/stitches to come out or dissolve and get far into healing after a c-section too.  You will feel a lot better than you are. 
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