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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Lonisha87 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 30 2014 at 10:42pm
Yes being too damn tired has messed us up quite a bit when i did try, but pain has been the main reason. 4 months sucks. Missionary does nothing to make it easy, ill just try to make it through the pain until it feels right again.
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I apologize, but I would like some clarification on the pain. Is it like, you have become too tight, or it's like your vajay still somewhat hurts from giving birth? None of the above? Mixture? 

I really like this thread btw. I tried to have this convo with my mom and she was very obscure. She said we would talk about it more when it came closer to time (I'm not dating anyone serious, so marriage and kids is looking a far off at this point lol).
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I'm 21 weeks now. I finally get to find out what I'm having today.

I don't think I ever want to have sex again after this baby.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote kfoxx1998 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 31 2014 at 8:29am
I don't remember any pain at all but my kids were small (just under 7lbs).  This sounds agonizing.   I guess if you have a great guy it will ultimately work out.  I agree with relaxing and taking it slow at first.  I had to wait two months after my last surgery and I was dying.   I missed my man so much I was having super naughty dreams every night.  When there was a baby involved my dream was sleep.  Please go to sleep little babySleepy
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (3) Thanks(3)   Quote NadiaPost Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 31 2014 at 9:06am
I didn't think about sex afterwards. My vagina was is great shape after the delivery but I just wasn't in the mood and my baby would sleep during the day and stay up all night. I didnt crave peen I craved sleep
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My husband was not into preggo sex so its been a very long time and I'm counting down the days until my six week doc appt. 

I know that I am NOT fully healed at the moment but the bleeding finally stopped and the naughty thoughts wont go away 
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That's sucks LH.  He was afraid of hurting the baby.  You only have a few weeks left.  Did making the thread help?  I know once I talked about it and resolved that it was going to be a few more weeks I felt a lot better.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote Wildfire Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Mar 31 2014 at 9:13am
i remember that first time ---it was awe-some!!Embarrassed
i didn't even realise how much i was craving it 30 few seconds in I was like "sheiiiiiiiiit!"
i was roughly 8 weeks post
i had a section, so everything's the same. but im sure for many women who had natural birth, nothing has changed either.


OP, i think docs say to wait 6 weeks...


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Originally posted by Princess Grace Princess Grace wrote:

The only difference was you damn near be too tired to mount anything other than your bed.CryCry

i didnt know you were a mom
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Originally posted by iluvmihair iluvmihair wrote:

I apologize, but I would like some clarification on the pain. 


it felt a little bit like that, but he was very gentle and i was very "ready"....so there was no pain, just a little discomfort in the beginning, but that quickly went away
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