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Originally posted by starliteboo starliteboo wrote:

I recently broke up with my boyfriend (July) and shortly thereafter I met another gentleman who is over all pretty nice. We have gone out dinner and have hung out about one week for the last couple of months. He is financially stable,no kids, has a great relationship with his parents, owns his own house and has a pretty decent job. He also does not mind spending money on me which is nice but I am not physically attracted to him. When we first kissed I did not feel any sparks and my heart did not skip a beat. My sister thinks I should stick with him because maybe he will eventually grow on me. But I am just wondering if I should just keep him in the friend category and just continue my search for the right one. I guess I wanted to know is there ever a time when its okay to settle for someone that isn't that attractive but kinda great in ever other category. 


Yes. It depends on where you are in your life and what you want. Looks and sparks fade. Stability is important. This sounds on the surface, like a good man.




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"Growing" attraction towards someone only works in a vacuum. Life is too short, find someone that gives you that "special feeling" down there!
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Close your eyes. Sometimes we think too much about what is attractive to the eye. If you were physically atracted to him and he burned his face in a fire you would be at a loss. Fall in love with a mind. It is so much sexier when he can turn you on with his brain. Fall in love with the gentleman he is.


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Again, it's not about 'looks' - it's about 'Chemistry'. That way burned face or not .. it would still be love.

Geesh, no matter what kind of money he has .. you've still gotta lay up there and tell him F you every night and for that ... you need something REAL.

Otherwise it becomesa veiled form of prostitution.

I think it's interesting how many women are willing to pretty much ignore this .. just because the guys got a little money. What if he loses everything? Then you are stuck with a guy that has no momey AND he doesn't even make you happy .. because it never was real love to begin with.

I'd rather have something REAL and whether his burns his face or he loses his money ... I would still wanna be with him because it's TRUE love.

Why sell yourself short?



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