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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Carmensworld Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 13 2013 at 7:30pm
Originally posted by bebe88 bebe88 wrote:

Yea I used to be jealous of girls with big breasts....then I got implants. Never felt better tbh.

Cry....this is making me want implants even more...
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote carolina cutie Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 13 2013 at 7:32pm
Originally posted by Ladybird0724 Ladybird0724 wrote:

khadi, i would wait with the boob job.

i was barely a B at 19, and by the time I was 23, I was a full C and with no sort of weight gain. it takes time with some people, and you may be one of them.

as for your self image, you are a beautiful girl in every way. please believe that. tell yourself this every day, and don't be so hard on yourself! i know its hard to not be so critical of yourself. i would also follow the advice of other posters and look into a counselor.
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Originally posted by KhadiNiaomi KhadiNiaomi wrote:

lol @ body dysmorphic maybe im exggerating a little, Im probably speaking more on when I feel down thats how I feel.
yeah... ignore that bdd thing.
 
sorry that you're feeling this way. considering your age, i'd say give the counseling a try. everyone has things they would like to change about themselves. maybe it won't be so bad after some reframing techniques, or self esteem exercises.
 
should that not work, do the research, find a good doctor, go to a consultation and ask questions about everything you can think of.
 
while i'm not a fan of the surgery route, i realize that feeling you look unappealing can be(come) a psychological hell. if going up a cup size or 2 is the only thing standing between you and feeling that much better about yourself, go for it.
 
much luck with it khadi!! Smile
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Do it Carmen!!!
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Getting a boob job won't make you feel confident. Insecurity comes from inside, so does confidency.
You need to work on yourself and when you are loving yourself, if you feel that you'll look fierce with bigger breasts, THEN you go and get a boob job.


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I'm sorry but still well think about it this way you're not alone! 
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Originally posted by JoliePoufiasse JoliePoufiasse wrote:

I agree with Modeless Diva. If it makes you that depressed, this is something you might want to consider but only AFTER you've had therapy. You wanna make sure that any expectation you might have regarding surgery are not overinflated. Sometimes people have other issues and feel that plastic surgery will be the answer to all their problems. Make sure you fix those before going under the knife, if you're gonna go that route.

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Originally posted by sbrownie84 sbrownie84 wrote:

Originally posted by JoliePoufiasse JoliePoufiasse wrote:

I agree with Modeless Diva. If it makes you that depressed, this is something you might want to consider but only AFTER you've had therapy. You wanna make sure that any expectation you might have regarding surgery are not overinflated. Sometimes people have other issues and feel that plastic surgery will be the answer to all their problems. Make sure you fix those before going under the knife, if you're gonna go that route.

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Are you referring to my skin issues? If so, yes. Along with a few raised scars.


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Skinny girl problems.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote ThatGurlD Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 13 2013 at 9:22pm
My close friend went through this.  When she was getting fitted for her wedding dress, the tailor kept stuffing her bra saying, "More! Need more!"  She got implants soon after she married.  I think he wanted to make her his before he invested LOL

She looks a little odd to me because she has zero hips but who GAF what I think, she is HAPPY.  That's what matters.  She's always smiling, takes pictures now, wears beautiful clothes.  If I could fix the things I don't like about my body just by getting implants, honey I'd be all over it.  

Whatever you decide to do, please stop obsessing over other people.  They are probably obsessing over you right back.  We as women need to learn to embrace ourselves and realize that other women to give or take away our right to feel okay about ourselves.  
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