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Originally posted by Cali naps Cali naps wrote:

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Cali, would you be willing to go to therapy? (if you're not already)
Maybe. I used to feel some sort of way about going but I've been considering it more lately. I might be more open to it now because I'm not being forced to go and it would be my own decision.


ClapHug Well, I wish you the best. And you should definitely give it a try. If you dont find a therapist youre comfortable with, don't just stop going or force yourself to keep seeing them, find another one.
Thank you very much and I will keep all of that in mind if I decide to try it.
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Originally posted by browneyez4548 browneyez4548 wrote:

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I suffered though a slight eating disorder (anorexia and bulimia) for a while...sounds way worst than it was Lol, I think some of my friends knew, but tbh NOTHING that they could have said would have made me change...I would have went into straight denial and defensive mode. I ended  up stopping on my own. I haven't relapsed in yeeeaarrs, but unfortunately I recently went through something and have picked up another habit Disapprove...I'm working on it though.
I'm glad you got through your eating disorderHug. If you need someone to talk to about the other sh*t you picked up my Pm box is open. I know how much it is to open up to people especially when they might just make thinks worse. I hope you are able to work through whatever you are going through.


Thank you, mine is open as well if you ever need to talk Heart

I've tried opening up to a couple of folks since the most recent tragedy, and like you said, they just made things worst..Sometimes people just dont understand I guess :shrug:  now I just keep quiet and smile, which is hard AF.

I've been looking into a therapist, but haven't found one yet. I want to speak to one that specifically handles my situation , still searching...I dont want to be someone's "first" patient with this issue, ya know?

Thanks! Trust me, I know how hard it is to just deal and smile. I hope everything gets better and you find a good therapist.
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Originally posted by rell85 rell85 wrote:

no self harm but nothing comforts me more than destorying something i saved for or treated myself to when im mad to the point of no thinking and it feel so good just calm me down when i don't know what eles to do. crazy family have thought i was a cutter but nope just wouldn't ever bring myself to that been through to much to add that to the list.
hmm that's interesting. well I hope everything is ok and if not i hope it gets better
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hmm, i have thought about cutting, but never did it. just wasnt my avenue for pain release. i know a few people who cut, one of whom is a good friend of mine. She stopped on her own.

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^^^^hmm. some of these posts make me wander if a lot of people consider SH at some point in their lives.
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